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fuck off I wont! All the cool people are online!!!
And they'll still be there when you're done touching grass.
What's outside though? Oh look, neurotypical social norms and a lack of any third space, waow. Also constant reminders that the working class of this nation is being crushed under the increasingly heavy bootheel of the bougie shitscum.
I guess I kind of lost the desire to talk to people after all my highschool friends turned out to be weird horrible fake neurotypicals. I go out for groceries and thrifting and whatever, but the world is not a cool place to be rn.
Okay, all good points, but! Have you tried microplastics, yet? They make that shit in every flavor you can imagine now.
Mmmmmm broiled credit card...
For me, it’s birding. Birding gets me outside touching grass, enjoying strange wildlife and a lot of other folk in the birding community don’t care if you’re queer, or are queer themselves.
Lil bird guys have been landing on my balcony and annoying my cat which I actually love. Wildlife is cool where it still exists.
I'm not gonna go try to ambush people irl with my weird shit, where would I even go? That stupid new canadian communist party? Local book club? Big brain ideas
If you live near a metropolitan city, there's probably a bunch of events for "weirdos" like furries, goths, alts, punks, queers, trans, etc. Just gotta find one Instagram of the event planners and then just trawl through their following list. That's how I found all the weird shit in my my city
Fuck can you imagine using instragram? Gross.
Idk if 120,000 is big enough for this, also I'd probably die. I am fucking scared to be near people and not mask(ND) at this point. There's a queer center thing downtown and I keep walking past it.
At least look and see if the queer center has anything posted that catches your eyes, usually they have such things where you don't have to be right up on it nor anyone else. 120k is plenty.
No that's fuckin scary :| what am I gonna do, just walk in there? What is IN there anyway? Probably a front desk lady...
Nah don't hype yourself out. I very much doubt there's any personnel at the front desk, and if there is they're busy. You're overthinking it.
Wtf am I gonna do, just walk in there? No way, I need a plan or something...
Just go in there without thinking, but if you need to super over think it pick a day, time and walk in there to get what events are going on in the community. That's it.
I mean nobody's forcing you to post. I never do posts or stories and 99% of my following are just party planners, bars, clubs, and political orgs
That's fair, I think 120000 is definitely big enough to find stuff happening downtown on insta
Nah I mean having an account for the service at all, ech. Facebook shit, fucc the zucc.
I hope it is...
Whenever I get somewhere like this, I try to find something outside that's a big ol to put some energy into. Whether that's some kind of exercise, yard project, or something else - I spent a good few hours on cleaning my shed today. It kinda helps recenter myself, even if it really sucks to get started on it.
And like others said, if you for a bit, there'll be even more posts for you to see when you have time to come back.
I miss exercise, I have a bike and I used to really like long jogs and shit, but I'm so far past being able to exercise now. Half hour walks can brutalise me if I'm not careful. Also I got no yard =)
I am decent at doing projects to recenter, for me I usually record tapes or do something computer related, hardware or software or w/e. I also like doing maintenance around the house, installing curtain rods or replacing window screens, washing clothes by hand. Projects are good!
Yeah, anything to make the space you live in a touch nicer is always great!
Even if exercise is a bit much for you, just getting some fresh air and sun can really work wonders - just something like reading a book for a bit at the park or whatever can help.
Read, outside the theoretical possibility of someone asking what I'm reading is both terrifying and fascinating. Maybe if I ever detach at the hip from wifey...
Fwiw I do still try to keep "active", like we made walking to the grocery store more scenic and it's almost 30mins now. I could maybe serve to just go for walks more?
Touch grass
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