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[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

Biggest German server and good community.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

Made one on lemmy.world but it's crumbling under the pressure as we speak. Tried a local one, but it has like 5 users. Don't trust it to live long enough. So started using the star trek one, because star trek. Not as if you'd need any other reason

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

It was after the u/spez shit AMA. Wanted Beehawsomething but saw they were restrictive and I had to give a detailed reason to join them, so I didn't. Sh.itjust.works seemed like a website name I would not remember and I wouldn't be able to go too Lemmy.ml was full and we where invited to go to other places Lemmy.world was there and had a nice name, it was for me Now I discovered only 2 days ago that slrpnk.net existed, and If we were able to move instance I would move there, I vibes a lot with the ideals I discovered on Reddit, they even got me to buy plants I take very good care of

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

I am hosting it lol

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

Yeah it does kinda matter, which is problematic for onboarding new users. Personally:

  • I read the rules/TOS.
  • I checked the Instances page to make sure instances I wanted to access were linked and not blocked.
  • I looked for any introduction posts to see what the backend infrastructure was like.
  • I checked the username I wanted was available.

It should not be that complicated, but it also has to be unfortunately. I had to make sure all those things matched what I personally wanted. This much choice is great for heavily-invested tech nerds with free time but sucks for anyone else wanting to join in.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Surprised I'm not seeing any other self-hosters in here. Having seen the de-federation drama, it's nice to know that I can federate with anyone I want, regardless of if they are federating with eachother.

Obviously it comes with the administration side of things, but I really don't mind.

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

The Admin of my instance (discuss.tchncs.de) is tolerant but understands the tolerance paradox. (Defderated with exploding heads but not every left instance - doesn't fall for false balance.

Also he was fast with approving new accounts.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I got approved today 20 mins after verifying my email. It was a pleasant surprise

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I'd heard you shouldn't pick one of the largest, I explicitly didn't want a server run by Nazis, Paleolibertarians, or Marxist-Leninists, and I didn't mind the rules here.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I created it myself.

Consider this a test to see if the federation works :)

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I chose lemm.ee because it came highly recommended and rightfully so. Great management and great communities too

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

I like the short and aesthetic of the domain name lemm.ee

Shorter domains the better I say! (usually)

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

A subreddit I was in linked their lemmy community and it was on dbzer0 so I created a account on there and called it a day.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

First I made one on ml. Then I made one on kbin because everyone said ml was a bunch of tankies and had some shady shit going on. Then none of the apps supported kbin so now I made one on world. Lol and I have no idea which one between world and ml I'm even posting from right now since I'm logged into both on liftoff

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Like most commenters here, because it was recommended and I'm a newbie at this.

Question though, if I create another account on say lemm.ee, is there a way for me to migrate my subscribed communities?

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

The one I use doesn't block other instances, although I probably will block the same instances and people that big instances already block, I want to be the one to make that choice and shape the content I see.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

Its status on federation with problematic instances.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

It doesn't really matter actually, but I would prefer to stay on the one with more members as it will probably last longer than other instances

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

I picked pawb because furries know tech really well, so I can trust the server to be fairly reliable.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (2 children)

The list of blocked instances made me switch from feddit.de to the current instance I'm using.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (4 children)

β€’Lemmy.ml - Signed up here first, was recommended to it as a general place to sign up to

β€’Lemmy.blahaj.zone - Egg memes, blΓ₯haj memes, just memes

β€’Lemmy.world - Handy for extra world news communities

β€’Lemmynsfw.com - Do I need to explain. This is under a different name, but I've kinda used that name over on the other place and I'm slowly bringing my content over (plus new stuff)

I only use one and four regularly

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I googled Lemmy and signed up to the first result, not knowing what instances were back then.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Well, I started my instance so it only makes sense that its also my home!

As for why I started an instance, I've always liked self-hosting stuff as its been one of the best ways I learn how stuff on the internet works, even more than I have learnt from doing some programming in my spare time. So it was an obvious move for me since I wanted to know more about how ActivityPub worked.

Originally I wasn't really planning on having open registration on my instance (otherwise I would've picked a better domain name, a bit late for that now) however as I saw Lemmy pick up pace, and the larger servers were starting to have issues, I figured that the best way I could give back was at least offer to share the load.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Tried lemmy.world as a reddit refugee but with the performance issues they're experiencing, quickly went looking for another instance with better performance and a decent amount of extra content. Lemmy.ml is blocked at work (.ml TLD is freenom so prone to abuse) and registration is closed anyway, so decided on lemm.ee.

Far better speed, a good amount of content locally, and few/no errors at the moment.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

I chose Aussie.zone cause I'm out of touch with my own country so seeing the news here is nice and cause I thought it would be easier to join a country instance.

Also optional email and I know I could make a temp email but I can't be bothered.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

It doesn't but I thought it did

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

It has the word world in the name, sounds bigger.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I joined lemmy.ca because I like to keep a diet of local news and a place to avoid American influence. I like using my local feed for well the local stuff and then my subscriptions for all the niche interests that the Canadian community couldn't sustain alone.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I've got accounts on 4 different instances just to see what things are like. Sometimes I want to see all sorts of posts, sometimes I want a feed of just LGBT-positive stuff, sometimes I just want to get off, different accounts on different instances for different things :)

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

I chose vlemmy.net cause it seemed neutral, general, and was one of the recommended ones. So far so good.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

I joined the one hosted by my country's community. The community is really great.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I'm learning german so while i was looking for some german speaking communities. They're surprisingly big and keep growing.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

The first I tried was Lemmy.ml. I applied and didn't hear back. So I joined Lemmy.world and registered immediately.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Because I'm a furry. obligatory OwO

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Set up the server myself. For me, that’s part of the fediverse experience.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

A friend owns it and it has a funny domain. Bonus of it being smaller is that it didn't have any performance issues yesterday/today.

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