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So I get banned from lemmy.ml What now? (lemm.ee)

submitted 4 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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Yesterday, I created my account on Lemmy.ml because I want to become mod on [email protected]. And I posted this comic on [email protected] It's SDV game cutscene where Shane a NPC go watch Sports game with you kiss you accidentily but It was part of that event also player kiss Shane(NPC) back. Here's video for more context. And someone claimed it have SA(Sexual Assualt) From Hexbear Ofcourse. So, I should delete it. I said it was a part of game cutscene. And If main player doesn't love the Shane(NPC) then they don't need to complete this event. And Just as a sarcasm I added Yeah we shoule delete this entire community because this game is Woke like Woke Detector Steam Group said. That user think I am some anti-woke dickhead something like that IDK. And tell me to Kill My Self. What I do now? I wanted on become mod on .ml because community was already well established. I message dessaline but I am sure he will not unbanned me. :(

Did I really did something wrong? I don't know If I really did something wrong.

Link for that comic if embed doesn't work.

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Created one one lemm.ee [email protected]

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 days ago

Just stick .ml with hexbear and grad on your blocklist and move on.

[–] [email protected] 67 points 4 days ago (2 children)

Make your own community on an instance that's not full of assholes

[–] [email protected] 25 points 3 days ago (3 children)

Done [email protected]

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago

Welcome!

[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 days ago

Welcome!

[–] [email protected] 6 points 3 days ago (4 children)

Nice, did you subscribe to it from the largest instances so that it's more visible? If not I can help with that.

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 4 days ago (8 children)

Why is lemmy.ml full of assholes? Wasn't that one of the original lemmy instances? Genuinely asking

[–] [email protected] 16 points 3 days ago

Lemmy was created by and for assholes, but a few other people have found it too.

[–] [email protected] 33 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (7 children)

As far as I know it was started by the original lemmy developers which made the software because they felt persecuted for their beliefs on normie social media. Lemmy just happened to be around when the reddit CEO decided to f up reddit so everyone started using it despite the creators not being well adjusted people.

Edit: just so I'm not misinforming here's what they said themselves about the origin https://lemmy.ml/post/70319

I don't get how extremist leftist content ends up attracting people who are against woke stuff in stardew really but over time I've gotten the vibe the ml and hexbear people are in general more combative and angry about things.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 3 days ago

because they felt persecuted for their beliefs on normie social media

And they wanted to become the persecutors themselves instead, forcing everyone into their rigid ideology to a worse degree than even said normie social media seeking to make everything advertiser friendly.

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[–] [email protected] 24 points 4 days ago

It was created by the Lemmy developers and is one of the original Lemmy instances. And while Lemmy itself is fantastic, unfortunately the developers are not. They are tankies, extreme authoritarian communists.

Other than their other instances lemmygrad and Hexbear, lemmy.ml tries to look more moderate and has many active and great communities. But if you post things they dislike, you might run into similar troubles like OP.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 4 days ago

It's because if you aren't participating in the groupthink delusions you will be banned by extremely fragile mods. So people who aren't assholes tend to leave.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 4 days ago

https://lemmy.world/post/16211417

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[–] [email protected] 17 points 3 days ago

Your post made me move to lemm.ee. You can export your communities from lemmy.ml to a new instance off your choosing using the included tool on the web version off them.

[–] [email protected] 30 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Probably more fit for [email protected] , not sure this post will stay here

[–] [email protected] 9 points 3 days ago (3 children)

I think it's largely fine for this community but a crosspost to that community would also be a good idea.

CC: @[email protected]

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 days ago

I don't know anything about ml specifically, and I refuse to learn because I don't give a shit. Lemmy has pockets of crazy like any place. Do your thing, get banned if you get banned, end up where you end up.

I joined the new stardew valley thing you made.

[–] [email protected] 18 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Doesn't seem to me like you did anything serious enough to be banned from a whole platform, but moderators and administrators are individuals and some of them can't be objective when something presses their person hot buttons. If a right-wing Christian claimed abortion was Sexual Assault, that obviously would not automatically make abortion an off-limits topic, but I can imagine a moderator thinking differently. I agree with your response that nobody was being forced into anything, but using loaded words like "woke" is a good way to get yourself labeled by someone who thinks in memes.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 days ago

a good way to get yourself labeled by someone who thinks in memes.

What an effective way to put it.

[–] [email protected] 30 points 4 days ago (8 children)

Lemmy.ml is doomed. You were unlucky to pick the wrong instance. It's one of the downside of federated Lemmy that .ml is the oldest instance, leading to many cool communities being hosted there. The only way is to start that community on another instance that is not .ml or .world and staying patient.

Hexbear and lemnygrad are not even a choice.

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[–] [email protected] 22 points 4 days ago

Give yourself a high five (ok, fine, I guess that's just clapping, whatever) and move to a better instance!

[–] [email protected] 19 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

Join lemm.ee and ignore lemmy.ml

[–] [email protected] 19 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (3 children)

Your community doesn't need to be isolated to a single instance. Your home instance, lemm.ee, can be used as one.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

Exactly. I avoid lemmy.ml specifically because the admins there are the same ones who run the commonly defederated lemmygrad.ml - so the instance isn't particularly friendly.

Vote with your feet and move the community to a better instance, and hopefully some volunteer will message the old one detailing the move.

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (2 children)

What do I do now? Sorry If this was not right community to post this. Bye Tommorow is my exam. I hope I don't fuck it up because of this.

[–] [email protected] 33 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Take a deep breath, make yourself a cup of tea and go through your notes for the exam. Ace the exam!
Then think about which lemmy server you want to start your new stardew valley community on and what your community rules should be.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Thanks, It went all right.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Good to hear!

[–] [email protected] 6 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I wish everyone was sweet and welcoming like you on Lemmy.

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 4 days ago

Good luck with the exam!

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