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[โ€“] [email protected] 7 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Listening to music.

I was playing some music on my cassette player at school one day, but it wasn't rock'n'roll according to the renowned expert that was discussing the situation with me, therefore it was "gay".

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[โ€“] sunglocto 7 points 2 months ago

One time at school I decided to randomly put a flower on my shrt from outside, then my friend started frantically saying "That's gay bro! Take it off now" and refusing to walk with me in public if i didnt take it off

[โ€“] [email protected] 7 points 2 months ago

Wear a kilt?

TBH I've never tried and nobody told me it was gay. But I'm a sweaty person and I would love to air out my crotch except for fear of social criticism.

[โ€“] [email protected] 7 points 2 months ago (9 children)

I would recommend that anyone concerned with privacy either use a burner account or not answer these kinds of questions.

While statistically I'm sure there are many straight men here, doxxing and other forms of identification are enabled by combining different breadcrumbs of information.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 6 points 2 months ago (3 children)
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[โ€“] [email protected] 6 points 2 months ago

Use a tote bag

[โ€“] [email protected] 6 points 2 months ago

Using black eyeliner.

[โ€“] [email protected] 6 points 2 months ago

Listening to Frank Sinatra singing about women by a guy who used to play grab ass with men. They always find something to project their insecurity on to.

[โ€“] [email protected] 4 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Well it was only twice in the 20+ years I've been going to bars, and I don't shy away from a gay bar.

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