Linux

This was definitely a big help for me: https://linuxjourney.com/

Each distro picks the things it likes the things it doesn't like and it combines what it wants into a working operating system. Maybe they make some of their own custom stuff, maybe they just borrow other people's stuff.

Debian, up until the last couple of revisions was very big choosing on only free things. If you wanted to use any non-free products you had to jump through small hoops. So Ubuntu took debians core, and rewired it to properly support free things making installation and maintenance on newer hardware much easier. Because it was so much easier, they got a huge support community, and became the default for a lot of people just starting out. But then the guys that run Debian also made other decisions, like trying to monetize some of the aspects or push for the use of different package managers that people don't love. Mint came along and kind of filled the gap in between ubuntu's up sides and downsides and became the easy default for a lot of people. In the midst of all that turmoil, Debian slipped in their own version of making non-free software seamless. A lot of the support thrown into Ubuntu and mint also helps Debian.

Red hat, fedora, and centos have the same kind of story going on, But it's much less exciting and more about support and payments.

The next thing you weren't into is immutable operating systems. Like Fedora silver blue or NIXOS. They're extremely secure, because you're not allowed to make changes to the operating system blindly while it's running, But it complicates just about everything you do in the name of security.

The other thing you mentioned were window managers. (Gnome, KDE...) They're basically affecting the look and feel of the gui for the operating system. It's your right click and your start menu and your window shades at the top and how windows are moved and snapped and organized. KDE looks and works by default a lot more like Windows, Gnome has a rather flexible plug-in system in tons of plugins available. Most of the other window managers are designed for low memory usage.

Another thing you'll run into is X-Windows and Wayland. They mainly deal with backend internals of how the gui does its work. X Windows is ancient and compatible with just about anything that was ever made, Wayland is a bit flashier a little more efficient, and a little more secure, But at the same time it has a lot of compatibility issues with new hardware. Like if you're going to run auto hotkey you're going to have a harder time getting it to run under Wayland.

If you're running on an x86/64 PC you can choose whatever you want, with the lion share of tech support being available for Debian variants (Debian, Ubuntu, Mint)

If you're running on Mac, some distros are better supported.

If you're running on a raspberry pi you're usually best going with one of the ones they recommend.

When someone says that an application is tested to work with a certain distribution, most likely it can work or be coerced to work with most of the other distributions, But the developer designed it under and tests it under whatever distribution they recommended regularly. So don't be surprised if you choose something else and you have to fight with it a bit to get it to work or in rare cases it doesn't work at all.

I'll do a (simplified) Windows analogy, if you're already familiar with Windows.

Microsoft Windows is closed-source/proprietary, which means only Microsoft has the source code for it, and only Microsoft is legally allowed to create or distribute copies of Windows. "Windows 11" for example is a "distribution" containing the "Windows NT kernel" (core of the OS) alongside other important software to make the OS usable, like a boot loader, service layer, graphical interface, desktop environment, and lots of included "system" applications like a file explorer, a web browser, apps to adjust settings, apps to display menus and task bars, and so on.

"Linux" by itself is just the kernel, the core of the OS. Which is by itself not a "usable" operating system yet, just like holding a CPU in your hand doesn't allow you to use it yet. More components are needed for that. Since Linux is open source and under a permissive license, anyone (even you) can go ahead and create an operating system made with the Linux kernel. If you do that, this is called a distribution or "distro" of Linux. Since there's not just one company allowed to do that, many distributions exist. They all made their own operating system on top of the Linux kernel. Even though hundreds of distros exist, only a handful of them are actually popular, stable, secure and recommended for general use. They all use similar, but sometimes different software to include in the distribution. Like the Linux kernel, most of that software is open source so it can also be modified or extended.

Common and recommendable Linux distributions (= full, usable operating systems) include: Linux Mint, Ubuntu, Fedora, OpenSuSE, Arch, Debian. These are full operating systems and they all include the Linux kernel at their core. Of course, the similarities go further than that. Most distros are so similar that if you've learned one, you can also use any other with little additional things to learn. However, some distros are tailored to more specific users or use-cases, for example Arch targets more experienced Linux users because it's a very minimalistic distro, it expects the user to know which packages he wants to install. It pre-installs almost nothing. You can think of this like "Windows Server Core" where it just boots into a minimalistic terminal by default, no usable GUI yet, but you can of course install the desktop environment and everything if you need it and make a full-featured desktop out of it. The distro just doesn't want to preinstall anything which you later might not like, which is why it gives you the choice, but that makes it a minimalistic distro and it's harder for beginners to use that way. Other distros like Mint are much more similar to MS Windows in that they preinstall everything the user needs for a desktop OS and more, so that the user can boot into and use the desktop as quickly and easily as possible.

And then there are even more special-purpose distributions like Kali Linux which includes things like penetration testing tools (i.e. "hacker tools"), which makes it a distribution for IT security people, so they can boot into it and have access to most needed tools right away without installing much else. But usually, people don't talk about niche distros but about generalist distros which you can use as a regular desktop OS.

Desktop environments also exist on Windows but there's basically only one, made by Microsoft. In the Linux world there are several to choose from. The most common ones are: KDE Plasma, Gnome, Cinnamon, XFCE. These desktop environments contain window managers or compositors, task bars or panels, menus, various tools like file managers, process viewers and text editors, and various background programs. This is all needed for the user to have what is commonly known as "a desktop environment", because if you didn't have one, you'd be basically staring at a screen containing at most a cursor and a wallpaper, with no way for you to interact with anything. Of course, these can look and feel different from each other (just like Windows looks and feels different than MacOS), and they have different features and strengths and weaknesses, but their goal is always the same. And as usual in the open source world, there's not just one project but multiple, and out of those multiple a couple are popular, viable and stable enough so that they are usually included in most Linux distributions. Which is why most distros also give the user the choice to have a specific variant of the distribution with a specific desktop preinstalled. For example, Ubuntu also has Kubuntu (= Ubuntu with preinstalled KDE Plasma) or Xubuntu (= Ubuntu with preinstalled XFCE). These can have various names but in the end it's just the base distribution ("Ubuntu") with a different preinstalled "face" so to say. Most other things are exactly the same between those distribution variants.

As a new user, you don't need to learn about everything. Just pick an easy to use generalist desktop distro like Linux Mint and use the default desktop environment or variant which they provide or recommend by default. You can start experimenting with more choices later on if you want, but you also don't need to. If you have something you're comfortable using, then you can just stick with that.

I am gonna simplify it. This contains a lot of generalisation.

A distro or distribution is like Windows or macOS. When you want to install applications you mainly look for applications (they are generally called packages in linux) that are built for these distros. Major ones are Debian (Ubuntu comes under this), Fedora and Arch. Here the Debian/Ubuntu is the most user friendly with lots of guides and forums to help you get going. Most applications that has a Linux version will support Ubuntu. Major advantage of Debian is that, its stable. Because of this, core files that a system needs to run will be thoroughly tested and will not break. If you are testing the waters, you should go with distributions like Debian 12, Ubuntu 24 or 22.

Okay, coming to Desktop Environments, for now you only need to know about two, KDE, & Gnome. They are the GUI that you interact with. They come with basic GUI applications like a file manager, Terminal Emulators, etc. If you like window 10 style, you can go with KDE and Gnome is a little different, but its the default option in Ubuntu I think. You can install any DEs on any distributions but may require some know how. So DEs are for basic utility and Look and Feel.

Image: Gnome on Debian 12
Image: KDE on Debian 12

I think you have gotten a lot of good answers so my 2 cents are. Install something simple like Ubuntu and try it out. Getting the answers to your questions will not give you the "feel" of using a linux system. Once you start you will begin to have more answers and a lot more questions, specifically in the areas you are interested in.

Also check the Arch wiki, it is really good for any distro because it gives a good reference for configurations.

Linux is the kernel, the core of the system.

A distribution is a collection of software that is provided with the kernel, usually with it's own software package management system. Distributions are also supported and maintained by organizations which create their own tools for that distribution and also make decisions on what to distribute it with.

For example, Fedora is maintained and supported by the company RedHat which implemented their own tools and packaging system to use Linux. Debian is the same but with a community.

Desktop environments are that it says. You have several available in Linux. The two major ones being KDE and GNOME. They provide a desktop experience with their own paradigms. Just like the MacOS and Windows have their own desktop environments. They're basically graphical shells to allow users to use the system.

This has some good info...

https://www.geeksforgeeks.org/introduction-to-linux-operating-system/

A distro is a complete installable operating system (+ a set of software repositories from which you can install updates and new software).
Many distributions (or their flavors/spins) will come with a default desktop environment and then usually also apply some distro-appropriate theming to that desktop environment.
If you look at screenshots of distributions, you're likely just looking at screenshots of their themed default desktop environment.

And a desktop environment is essentially the GUI of your OS.
It includes software such as the panel/taskbar, the application menu, the systray, the audio system, icons, a login screen etc.. It also typically comes with a set of default applications, such as a file manager, a terminal emulator, a text editor etc..
In a sense, the desktop environment contains essentially everything that differentiates a desktop OS from a server OS (the latter is usually just a terminal, without graphical interface).

Honestly the thing that helped me most with that sort of stuff was just subbing to r/linux (now would be c/linux but this was like 4y ago now I guess...fucking hell time flies huh?) and reading up on stuff/asking questions for a few months before I switched. There's also linux4noobs (both c/ and r/) for asking specific questions, it's slower on lemmy but still can offer help and honestly I should probably make a post here about it again to drum up awarwness. Finally I'd like to add that many times communities related to specific distros will be more help than general communities, if you have a question about Fedora for example it can be helpful to ask in c/fedora over c/linux sometimes.

Now as to your questions here, just to kinda boil it down, the main difference between distros is the prepackaged stuff that comes with it, and the package manager. Package Managers are basically your "app store," this is where you'll get most of the stuff you need, for the rest, Flatpak is a package manager available for all linux distros, and some things will have .deb or .rpm files on their website. The ones you listed are indeed distros, Lubuntu is too however.

DEs are basically your UI. If you ever changed the launcher on an android phone back when that was a thing, it's basically the same concept. Fedora and FedoraKDE are the same distro with much of the same stuff under the hood, but Fedora (Gnome) is more maclike and FedoraKDE is more windowslike in terms of user interface. For this reason Ubuntu (Gnome) and Fedora (Gnome) almost feel more similar than Fedora (Gnome) and FedoraKDE. You can install any DE on any distro for the most part, but in the beginning I recommend picking a distro by considering the DE first and the package manager second, and everything else (long time stable vs bleeding edge updates for instance) third. You can always switch later for free, the only investment is time and maybe an external hdd/ssd for backups.

Someone will 100% come correct me and argue this lol, but I'm just trying to kinda explain it in "doesn't already know about linux" terms (so hopefully I effectively did that at least lol). If you have any more specific questions feel free to ask here or on linux4noobs, and of course you can always try these distros out for yourself before installing them! You can use a USB drive and a program like Balena Etcher, Fedora Media Writer (iirc available on windows), or Rufus to create a live boot disk, boot into it instead of your OS, and play around. There's typically no persistent memory so everything you do will be reverted when you shut down (and all saved files will be lost), but it's just for trying it out before you "buy" it so to speak (just don't click install unless you want to install, of course). There are plenty of guides for that out there, it's actually a step in the installation process for most distros.

As someone that tends to learn most by doing. Most of these comments are excellent my only suggestion is to try it. Most Linux distros come with live images which you dont need to install to test out.

Just download the ISO and put it on a USB and then boot from the usb. You can even make a multiboot USB with ventoy.

Or you can use distrosea to demo a distro in a browser.

I also highly suggest using the arch wiki for research. It will probably go into much more depth than you need at first but it will also not dumb things down or over simplify things for you so you might actually learn. Take this doc on what a DE is for instance, https://wiki.archlinux.org/title/Desktop_environment

basically there's the big 3 (debian, arch, fedora) and everything else is just them with presets (ui, drivers, etc)

debian uses apt, arch uses pacman, fedora uses dnf for packaging, so packages (app executables) aren't intercompatible and so you usually have some apps that aren't available on on or the other

usually debian had everything, arch has everything with workarounds, idk about fedora

anyway the tree is like:

debian

• ubuntu
  • kubuntu
  • lubuntu

fedora

• nobara

arch

• manjaro

with DEs you should see which ones you like by testing them out, if you get the debian netinstaller you can select however many you want in the install process and you can switch between them at boot with the dropdown menu in the login prompt