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this site is actually so mean literally all the time so im posting this here to let you know you’re not ‘too sensitive’ or something for not wanting to deal with attacks on your gender/body/intelligence for daring to exist and have fun online. the freaks that act like this are NOT the norm (they are just the loud and obnoxious minority) and it’s OK to take your time in recognizing this. <3
If I wrote comments like I chat in a grocery store queue I'd never write a single comment.
if i wrote comments like i chat in grocery stores id have 2.86k comments
Lemmy has a serious "I'm 14 and very badass" problem. Take the tone way down y'all. You wouldn't act like this in the real world.
I live in a highly repressive area where Trans people are seen as nonhuman beasts, I cant even be myself irl.
You don't know me.
The internet has that problem, but Lemmy is the best at combating that stuff I've seen so far.
Can you pinpoint a post which demonstrates this? I'm mostly on blahaj Lemmy communities, but I'd like to see your perspective.
Say that to my face
Are you aware that there are people in this world that have a severe medical condition which causes them to be that way? My mother for instance is one of those people. She is a truck driver that has bad knees and a bad back from driving the truck but you probably do not care about that case either. Oh well I am not one of those people I am 6’4″ 245lbs and I exercise every day. I would love to see you say something like to my mother in front of me. Probably never happen though you are probably just an internet tough guy. I doubt very seriously you would say that to someones face. Just my thought.What do you think. Oh I am sorry you probably do not have a brain. I on the other hand will be happy to buy you a plane ticket to come here and see if you have the nerve to say that to someone I know.
Please tell me this is pasta. I was confident my sarcasm would have been clear.
:(
Most of the arseholes who are arseholes on the Internet are arseholes I’m real life too.
People who chat at the grocery store, or wish you a good day when you are waking in the street are also usually people who are friendly and helpful on the Internet too.
People who get angry because someone else has the gumption to share a road with them are also the kind of people who abuse other Internet users because they share a server in an online game, social network or forum with them. They are also the type of people who get angry queuing at the supermarket and abuse retail workers.
“What are those, just like really big limes? Haha”
NO I DON'T FUCK YOU DIE IN A FIRE
aw man :(
..now I feel bad ...sorry ....i regret it
I had half a thought to reply in some sarcastic and mocking 'I'm angry' tone, but no, you're correct. This tweet is correct. I enjoyed this chat and hope you have a great day. Why would I even pretend to be angry about your post? <3
thanks stranger bestie, see you in the parking lot after bagging <3
Yeah, the site is mean. The doomerism is also really strong here. I should probably just try to cut out social media entirely. It's not good for me.
I know a lot of Lemmy turns their nose up at it because it’s not FOSS, but Bluesky has been legitimately chill IME. The subscribable block/mute lists and the way blocks break quote posts are a game changer. People who are chronic assholes end up shouting into the void and people who aren’t chronic assholes get the picture real quick
Embrace tradition. Time to bring back phpbb into the mainstream.
I'm annoyed with how mastodon works and I don't think it's ever going to change, so I might give bluesky a try.
lemmy was like the poison that got me on the road to recovery lol. after years of reddit i was literally one of the first ppl here in the post-api wave, i couldn’t give up scrolling but was so mad about the ethics. switched instances a couple times but in the end you just realize that social media as a concept, even if it’s technically hosted non-profit, is still structured after a model that was created to serve capital. lemmy still enables toxicity in the same way reddit did, and i was just like damn why would i invest time in a platform that doesn’t even make me happy haha
Probably the prevalence of american political posts + the fact that america is fighting a nazi cancer at the moment. A certain directness about a truly dogshit situation is fitting, and insisting on a rock-hard-pleasant tone with atrocities can border on lying.
It doesn't tend to happen on non-political memes, goofy stuff, or on (kinda surprisingly) Linux communities (mostly)
definitely happens on non political memes and linux communities in my experience :(
There aren't any non political memes. Maybe the toxicity comes from pretending there are
I have a blocklist of 35 people and this site has gotten way more positive and nice. It’s sad that it’s come to blocking so many people though.
All it takes is one arsehole in a nice thread to start insulting people and the whole thread often crumbles into a negative shitshow.
my blocklist grew to like over 80 then i was like, damn shawty do you actually like being here?, then i left 😅
Your instance has a good head start on me by blocking ML. A third of my blocklist is from said instance 😂.
I act with complete silliness and tomfoolery. Some people hate that and get angry at me, ofc im too busy hugging my Blahaj to care :3
🤗🦈🥰 <3
:3
Solid perspective.
Do you happen to know where they keep the hot sauce? I can’t find an employee anywhere.
Isle 6, between the tchotchkes and the ramen.
But the best stuff is next door at the Ace Hardware. The ones by the Duracell batteries are best
Ah my favorite four products all on the same shelf. Alkaline, alka-seltzer, alka-sauce, and alkahol
Hehehe, I like your funny words, magic man
If you filter out the "buzzwords of the week" you generally get calmer threads
Its not perfect but I've been lucky enough to have some very pleasant interactions here