this post was submitted on 14 Jun 2023
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My pregnant coworker (whom I don't see very often anyway and was in the process of moving to another city in the next couple months) sort of just disappeared.

Turns out she got a really bad infection and had no amniotic fluid. They ended up having to induce her very early and place the infant in the NICU. She is okay and the baby is okay, but apparently they induced her and then it was too late to get an epidural and she had a retained placenta so they were trying to pull it out. Only after screaming in pain for a bit did they decide to sedate her and address the issue.

I don't know anything about giving birth and even less about dealing with emergency situations, but the whole thing seems off to me. Epidural aside why wait to sedate her if the baby is already been delivered?

My heart goes out to her and her infant but man am I glad to be sterile.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

They waited to sedate her because women's pain and discomfort isn't a priority.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

The callus disregard towards her suffering is really frightening

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

They'll be paying off that NICU bill until that kid is an adult.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

That didn't even occur to me. Jesus her suffering will never end.