Everyone who has kids or plans to have kids should go to therapy, it's the only way to stop the cycle of trauma
this post was submitted on 29 Oct 2023
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My trauma was prescribed by therapists.
Can't make the same mistakes if I can't talk to women.
This is my fear with having kids and part of the reason I still haven't done it. I like the idea of having kids but don't want to actually do it and force someone to live with the consequences of my shitty parenting
I would argue that we still see some slight improvements and progress over the generations. Of course the difference could be much bigger but every time I bring up that we should implement tests and a license to have kids I'm call a crazy person...
someone needs to google what Eugenics is, because what you are proposing is very much that...
I've also had the thought that you should have a test to have a kid. So you're not crazy! Maybe I am though... 🤔
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some places have some level of test, or anyways interview or vetting, before becoming a childcare worker, or befire adoption. that could be seen as somethkng similar to described.
of course,multiple jurisdictions also make even accessing contraception, far more difficut that it should be, with all sorts of tests ands barriers in the way. I guess that's the opposite of, in one sense, of whats proposed perhaps.
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And, yeah, don't do eugenics, . do, however, make contraception and scientificallya accurate sex ed, freely and widely avalable.
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I really don’t know why I was born, overall it’s like wallowing in a cesspool, I’m not even exaggerating about it, it’s just a simple thought of what it’s been like over the years.
🎶 Nothing changes coz it's all the same
The one you get's the one you give away
It all just happens again
Way down the line 🎶
And all the things you learned when you're a kid
You fuck up just like your parents did
It all just happens again
Way down the line 🎶