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[–] [email protected] 160 points 1 year ago (7 children)

Lemmy to become mature enough to be a full replacement for Reddit

[–] [email protected] 32 points 1 year ago (3 children)
[–] [email protected] 27 points 1 year ago

👨‍🚀🔫👨‍🚀

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[–] TheEternalBambzip 142 points 1 year ago (19 children)

My wedding in 11 days. Even though I'm somewhat stressed because I'll have to travel for it and there are some moving parts, I'm excited. Wife is taking it pretty well and she is excited as well!

[–] [email protected] 44 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Make sure to make a conscious choice to stop every once in a while and take the moments in, otherwise you might not remember anything because things are happening so fast on the day

[–] [email protected] 32 points 1 year ago (5 children)

When I got married I made the decision to avoid going around to all the guests and make sure they were happy/entertained etc. At the reception I basically stayed near the main table and just enjoyed the night. If people wanted to come and chat then they could.

Remembering that it was mine and my wife’s day took a real load off and helped with a lot of the pressure of the event.

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Congrats on the wedding, and I wish you a beautiful future!

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[–] [email protected] 125 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (7 children)

I’m pretty excited for getting married in the next three hours!

Edit: I DID IT, LEMMY!

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 year ago

All the best! Hope everything goes smoothly!

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago

Congratulations!! 🥂🍾

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[–] [email protected] 99 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (6 children)

The fediverse is something I'm excited for and it's still in it's infancy so it'll be intersting to see how it plays out as it starts getting more polished and user friendly.

Despite the doom and gloom of AI I think it's been really cool, and one area I've seen it help is for my relatives where instead of me having to solve basic tech issues AI has helped. When it develops into a full on companion that will do things it asks them to I'll be bothered less and less.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 year ago (1 children)

It’s frustrating to see peoples’ imaginations run wild with AI. They’re not building “sentient” machines. There will never be machines that are sentient in anything other than appearance, and we’re notoriously easy to fool in that way.

My favorite way to describe AI that I’ve heard is “applied statistics.” It’s basically just processing huge amounts of data, very fast, simultaneously, and then presenting conclusions that are usually very likely.

Yes, it will be used to make weapons that are horrifically efficient, but likewise it will be used to make defenses that are equally efficient.

I think the good will ultimately outweigh the bad. Hopefully by a long shot.

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[–] [email protected] 46 points 1 year ago (1 children)

The possibility that things might one day get better for humankind. We're long overdue.

[–] [email protected] 22 points 1 year ago (4 children)

If you look at overall worldwide poverty and starvation numbers, coupled with medical advancements and indoor plumbing, now is a pretty good time to be a human. Yes, there are lots of problems, but the standard of living (for the average person) has gotten so much better in the last 200 years

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[–] [email protected] 44 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Making music with my fucking band WOOOOOO

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[–] [email protected] 41 points 1 year ago (14 children)

I’ll be trying out Linux outside of a virtual machine for the first time. I’ve got a SATA SSD external enclosure that I’ll be using to boot without messing with my current pc

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[–] [email protected] 35 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

John Green posted a video about a week ago calling out Johnson & Johnson for extending their patent for Bedaquiline, a medication that treats multi-drug-resistant tuberculosis. The extension would prevent inexpensive generic versions from entering countries that are being ravaged by TB. After the video received critical reception and with John’s call to action, the public pounced on J&J. This led to J&J announcing they would allow the generic versions of Bedaquiline to be produced and shipped to the majority of low- and middle-income countries hit hard by TB, including countries where the patent is still in effect. We still don’t know which specific countries those are, but it’s still great news!

Plus, Hank Green is done with his chemo and seems to be mostly cancer-free for the time being.

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[–] [email protected] 33 points 1 year ago (2 children)

It’s my anniversary, so I’m looking forward to having a nice dinner.

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[–] [email protected] 32 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Specifically, good things on the World Wide Web: research. The amount of good information available is incredible, compared with pre-Internet times. Weather forecasts, what the space telescope is looking at, what's happening in other parts of the world places in their own voice.

Sure, there is misinformation as well, and some people will cast doubt on anything they don't like or try to drown it out, but get past that, and this is a golden age of knowledge.

[–] [email protected] 30 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I joined the great resignation to pursue a freelance art career. I'm excited but also terrified I'll just be another starving artist. At least I don't have to wake up at 6am anymore.

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[–] [email protected] 30 points 1 year ago (3 children)

possibly getting a new laptop that is slightly better than my desktop, i hope to get into something like peertube/content creation but im still thinking it thru.

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[–] [email protected] 26 points 1 year ago (5 children)

-2025 Humans back in the Moon

-Late 2020’s early 2030’s new missions to Venus

-Late 2030’s drone to Saturns Moon Titan

-2030’s maybe Humans on Mars

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[–] [email protected] 25 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Getting my year long undiagnosed chronic pain issues to be diagnosed. My neurologist has been proactive this past month since I saw him so I’m hoping we can get somewhere. Got proof, just no diagnoses

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 year ago (7 children)

I’ve been there. It’s such a relief to finally have an official diagnosis, you feel strangely happy when you eventually get it. Just a little word of caution - if it’s an incurable condition there’s a bit of a dip after the initial “happiness”. It’s still better to have a diagnosis than not, but it can feel a bit anticlimactic. I’m wishing you well!

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[–] [email protected] 25 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I repurposed my 2008 ThinkPad as a server, saving it from the trash for yet another year!

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[–] [email protected] 23 points 1 year ago

This is probably going to sound mundane, but I finally got my career back on track after the plague and have enough money to take my cats to the vet for proper medical care. Feel like I've been living at vets lately, but everyone's ears are clean, teeth have been checked, bloodwork done, and has the meds they need to thrive. I felt so bad that for two years the vet was life threating visits only.

What I'm looking forward to is many more years with my wonderful pets!

[–] [email protected] 21 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I went hiking on Saturday and I took a fuck ton of pictures, I'm really looking forward to editing the best shots from the trip. The hike was so beautiful it's probably going to be pretty hard to pick, and honestly that's the best kind of problem to have.

Also I have a bunch of miniatures that are at the point of needing a final pass of paint before being done, that I'm really excited to finish up.

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[–] [email protected] 21 points 1 year ago (1 children)
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[–] [email protected] 20 points 1 year ago (2 children)

My excitement is maybe small, but I’m excited about the 5-ish hours of sleep I’ve just had, which is such a gift after weeks of pain waking me up all the time

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 1 year ago (5 children)

Today I've ordered the parts for my new PC, which will be a lot faster than my current one

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[–] [email protected] 17 points 1 year ago

The company I work for changed their policy on paid vacations. Starting in August I'm going to have a lot of vacation days and I'm going to use them.

[–] [email protected] 17 points 1 year ago

I have a powerlifting meet on Sunday that I’m excited for. Going to set some PRs hopefully!

[–] [email protected] 17 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I'll keep it short term and simple. Wednesday nights I do cocktails and listen to live jazz group from the local school music students from 6pm-7pm, then I walk to my local sushi joint for great fish!

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[–] [email protected] 17 points 1 year ago

I'm beginning to plan hosting a monthly dinner for friends, maybe starting in the fall. I'm excited thinking about having people I love gather over food regularly

[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Actually really excited for the decentralized internet...

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I'm excited to see my two teenage daughters perform together in their theater camp production in a couple of weeks. Seeing my girls growing up so fast can be bittersweet, and I relish these moments when they are so clearly full of joy for what they are doing. They will even have a duet together!

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I dont know why im struggling with this question. Work is going well, but I don't really have much I'm looking forward to, atm. I feel like everything I have planned is more stressful than fun.

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I'm hosting Thanksgiving this year. I'm so psyched to show all the old crones in the families how to do a proper holiday. I have so many fucking garlands in my Amazon shopping cart. Need another paycheck or two before I can pull the trigger.

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 year ago (7 children)

I'm excited for my yoyo of the month mystery box. July's box was dope!

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 year ago (6 children)

I'm cooking a pork roast to eat this week and I'm going to a concert next week. I also just bought a 15 pack of beer. Amazing things happening over here.

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 year ago

It’s adult night at the skating rink tonight and I’m going 🛼

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago

Going on leave soon with my family.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago

Hard question for a pessimist. I have some pretty delicious lunch coming up so that's pretty great.

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