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My story with the game is that I didn't want to get made fun of for playing as a girl, so I roleplayed as black instead of playing a self insert.

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[–] [email protected] 27 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (2 children)

i didnt hesitate, i picked the fukin girl

on an unrelated note, i cannot believe it took so long to realize this about myself

[–] [email protected] 13 points 9 months ago

Exactly, no hesitation. In any game in any context.

I feel very uncomfortable when I have to play male characters.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 9 months ago (1 children)

This, but with the boy, and the name I chose for the character... Oopsies.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Finally chose the girl character when I was away in college and figured it was less likely people would know. Of course next time I see my best friend, he wants to trade pokemon and teased me for using a girl character with a feminized version of my name. Was almost a decade later when I considered I might not be cis.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 9 months ago

Well, there’s also the fact so many cis men use female characters in games for many reasons like cooler armor etc. And they’re still cis, so you feel like « that’s not an indicator of being trans » but here we are…

[–] [email protected] 20 points 9 months ago (1 children)

I chose the boy character while thinking to myself "I wish I could choose the girl."

[–] [email protected] 4 points 9 months ago

Just do it.

[–] [email protected] 18 points 9 months ago
[–] [email protected] 12 points 9 months ago

We picked Girl because of the cute artwork right? ... Right?!

[–] [email protected] 12 points 9 months ago

i picked the girl one because i liked the look of the girl character more, and my brother made fun of me

that was when the first brick in the wall was laid

[–] [email protected] 9 points 9 months ago

Pokémon X: Boys can't wear the cool trenchcoat, it's a dress and dresses are for girls

Ach, I wasn't really using that masculinity anyway.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 9 months ago

One of the things about the trans masc experience. Nobody fucking questioned me playing as boy... ever. They were also still surprised Pikachu face when I came out as trans despite me dressing like a male poke-protagonist since the moment I got to choose my own clothes and not wear hand-me-downs.

I wholeheartedly wish to take a bat to the patriarchy so that our AMABs can finally be free and girl option is not looked at as some kind of innately less cool failure state. I hope future gens of humans will never need hesitate about what poke-protagonist they wanna be the very best like no one ever was with ...for any reason other than debating the preference of outfits.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 9 months ago

I did this, but I just spent the normal cis amount of time thinking about it

[–] [email protected] 7 points 9 months ago

My issue was always the 'bag'. Boys always got some lame backpack. Girls got a cool fanny pack or messenger bag. It's a fantasy game, I don't want to wear the same thing I carry my books to school in, I want cool gear!

[–] [email protected] 6 points 9 months ago

I hesitated so long before picking girl😂 .

[–] [email protected] 5 points 9 months ago

"Do I play what I actually want, or what my family won't make a scene about if they notice?"

[–] [email protected] 5 points 9 months ago

Wish I had this in Red/Blue although I most likely wouldn't have chosen the girl out of fear of my dad or school kids finding out. Still got made fun of enjoying playing Keori in SSX Tricky

[–] [email protected] 2 points 9 months ago

I just started playing Amnesia: Rebirth and the opening cut scene gave me such unexpected euphoria. Take a look, the euphoric part starts around 2:20

https://inv.tux.pizza/watch?v=oRSkZ1FdEXo

It made me realize how extremely rare it is for a game to not only have a female protagonist but also a first person perspective where you can actually see your own body if you look down.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 8 months ago

Nope but it very much annoys me that the games lack an NB option.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 9 months ago

wait wait Is this a trick question? Maybe there is no right answer... or is there?