this post was submitted on 23 Jul 2023
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Café

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Welcome to our virtual third place, The Café.

Come on in and make a new human connection over a cup of coffee (or Teh Tarik). This is a casual community, do whatever you want, share your oyen pics, your frustrations, and even organize a weekend picnic with the community. The world is your oyster.

Rules are simple, be kind and civil with each other. As with any other café, rude patrons will be kicked out.

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago (3 children)
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[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

Same HAHAHA

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

The difference is, I can finish my feed, in Reddit I could not, but boredom won every time lol.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Yeah that's because reddit shows you posts that even you're not subscribed to, while Lemmy doesn't unless you browse all.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Well, Reddit did not for me, I used Sync for Reddit and never detected this behavior.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Ah right.. I only switched to 3rd party apps at a later time so I was mostly used to the standard experience.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Huh that sucks mate, well, you are better here.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (3 children)

Weekend well spent with my guy, stuffing myself with food and so much laughter. Love love love him so much! Fella was so excited to watch Barbie he wore pink for Oppenheimer and we weren't even doing movie marathon 😝😝 Food tax hnnnghh

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago (2 children)

New on monyet.cc. Whats cooking?

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

Hola, welcome to the community!

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Cookie! Want some? ༼ つ ◕_◕ ༽つ🍪

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (3 children)

Someone just passive-aggressively reminded me I could block people on Mastodon, and if I can't adhere to CW requests perhaps I should get off Mastodon. Wow, I've only beeon on the Internet since 1999, Twitter since 2008 and Mastodon last November. I don't know how to block ah? Wah.

these Mastodon HOA people are one kind.

PS: A few days ago, I blew my top when someone told me to CW my food photos. Since food is the way us Malaysians talk to each other on Mastodon, I feel it's really too much they ask me to CW. Since then a few people explained that food can be triggering to people with eating disorders. But then other people say CW can also worsen eating disorders. Apalah you cannot win. Why don't they leave us alone lol. I think i'll just limit my posts to #MakanApaToday and #FediTiam and exclude #Food cos I dah fed up with the HOA* people. This is sad cos I use #Food so we can reach non-Malaysians, but it attracts the hornets. Maybe I use #expatasia instead (someone asked me to include the hashtag so the expats can find these posts)

All of this nonsense makes me glad that we have a "safe" space here on monyet.cc, where we can be completely Malaysian without some reply dude/dudette come and lecture you for melanggar some cultural rule you are not even aware of. I feel more relaxed here. A bit sad. I now understand why Black Twitter never felt comfortable enough in the Fediverse.

*Home Owners Association - people on Mastodon who patrol it to make sure everyone behave and follow rules. Like prefects, but worse.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Whoa, I'm on mastodon and love pics of food. What's your @?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

It's at hachyderm.io/@liztai

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

Morning meeting cancelled today 🙌

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

#TIL that Ms Puiyi is the Malaysian Instagram account with the most followers.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Well. I can see the appeal? 🤭What did she do la to get highlighted by #TwitterJaya

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

You mean Xjaya? 🙃

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Weekend wasn't too busy but was out both days so baru today now back on monyet.cc Alooo

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

Welcome back haha 🙈

[–] oyenyaaow 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Just curious, why is the 10^th^ July daily thread pinned?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Huh? It wasn't pinned on my end tho

[–] oyenyaaow 1 points 1 year ago (2 children)
[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Federation jank perhaps 🤔

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (16 children)

10th july was the day monyet.cc turned federation off for protection against the xss bug, so when the mods unpinned that day's daily thread at the end of the day, the action was not federated.

probably a solution would be to repin and then unpin it again, but if that doesn't work, maybe you'll need to see if the admins of lemmy.zip can help you.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Monday blue leh T.T when's the next public holiday hahahaahah

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (2 children)
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[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Youtube (& Youtubers) really want us to watch Oppenheimer. Every other video on my feed is about either the atom bomb or th WWII, Japan's conflict specifically.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Have to catch dem hype train for view

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

What is the highest number of upvotes you've personally observed ths daily chat thread having (while still having zero comments)?

Early this morning I saw 7 upvotes and zero comments.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

It's only 10am and i already space out a tons 😪

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

same man... I can already smell the danger of my work

[–] oyenyaaow 1 points 1 year ago

Cafe banner should be monkeys for April fool

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