Yes and no. I can't say he isn't giving you useful tools, but it sounds like the thing you are missing is "learning to love the game," which is a big deal.
I can't tell you how to manage your friend or your relationship, but if it were me, I would tell him you have to go an hour before you really do and hop into offline mode and do stupid stuff in cheap ships.
How fast can you land on a planet and not die? Go see alien ruins. Can you boop a thargoid with an eagle and run away before it kills you? Blow yourself up trying to use the neutron highway.