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[–] [email protected] 73 points 7 months ago (1 children)

You should still take some time for yourself. Always putting others' needs before yours will burn you out.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 7 months ago (1 children)

This is not "others". This is his son.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 7 months ago

Unless he is Jesus, father and son are separate people :)

[–] [email protected] 41 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Harry Chapin My child arrived just the other day He came to the world in the usual way But there were planes to catch, and bills to pay He learned to walk while I was away And he was talkin' 'fore I knew it And as he grew, he'd say "I'm gonna be like you, Dad You know I'm gonna be like you"

And the cat's in the cradle and the silver spoon Little boy blue and the man in the moon "When you comin' home, Dad?" "I don't know when But we'll get together then You know we'll have a good time then"

My son turned ten just the other day He said, "Thanks for the ball, Dad, c'mon let's play Can you teach me to throw?" I said, "Not today I got a lot to do", he said, "That's okay" And he, he walked away but his smile Never dimmed and said "I'm gonna be like him, yeah You know I'm gonna be like him"

And the cat's in the cradle and the silver spoon Little boy blue and the man in the moon "When you comin' home, Dad? "I don't know when But we'll get together then You know we'll have a good time then"

Well, he came from college just the other day So much like a man, I just had to say "Son, I'm proud of you, can you sit for a while?" He shook his head, and he said with a smile "What I'd really like, Dad, is to borrow the car keys" "See you later, can I have them please?"

And the cat's in the cradle and the silver spoon Little boy blue and the man in the moon "When you comin' home, son?" "I don't know when But we'll get together then, Dad You know we'll have a good time then"

I've long since retired, my son's moved away I called him up just the other day I said, "I'd like to see you if you don't mind" He said, "I'd love to, Dad, if I could find the time" "You see, my new job's a hassle and the kid's got the flu" "But it's sure nice talkin' to you, Dad It's been sure nice talkin' to you"

And as I hung up the phone, it occurred to me He'd grown up just like me My boy was just like me

And the cat's in the cradle and the silver spoon Little boy blue and the man in the moon "When you comin' home, son? "I don't know when But we'll get together then, Dad We're gonna have a good time then"

Written by: Harry F. Chapin, Marc Christian Gernert, Sandy Chapin, Andy Love

Album: Verities & Balderdash (US Release)

Released: 1974

[–] [email protected] 2 points 7 months ago

My first thought, too :)

[–] [email protected] 28 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (2 children)

Not necessarily. I'm in my twenties, still asking, not planning on stopping any time soon.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 7 months ago (1 children)

I envy that relationship. My dad doesn't even know my religious or political beliefs, let alone sharing a hobby. It's not like we don't talk, he just hears what he wants to hear, and he doesn't want to hear anything where I know more than him (including my hobbies and my field)

[–] [email protected] 2 points 7 months ago

Well, mine is dead, so at least you have that.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 7 months ago

I lost my dad in my 30s and I still want to ask him to build stuff with me. My 6 year old would have loved to too, so I’m trying to take better care of myself than my dad did, so we have a lot longer together.

[–] [email protected] 18 points 7 months ago

I felt that way last night with my youngest who really wanted to read with me. We did and it was worth it

[–] [email protected] 10 points 7 months ago (1 children)

My boy is almost 18 months.

I'm SO tired.

But it's glorious.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 7 months ago

You won't remember that age, before you know it Take it in!

[–] [email protected] 10 points 7 months ago

this post hurt me inside. Good Job.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 7 months ago

I got my first dog last year and this is me. Video games can wait cos my lil boy isn't going to be around forever 😭

[–] [email protected] 6 points 7 months ago (3 children)

I’d give anything for more of those moments. My son is 21 now and barely acknowledges me anymore. I hope he comes around and it’s just a phase but I have my doubts. So good call on playing legos. You have a limited number of those as a dad.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 7 months ago

My brother gifted lego to my mom this Christmas, if course I did lego with my mom at 29yo

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 7 months ago

I bet he ended the Lego session in a better mood than had he done what he thought he needed to do.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 7 months ago

I'm not looking forward to the day my friend's daughter doesn't want to do things with me anymore.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 7 months ago (2 children)

How does playing with Lego not constitute down time?

[–] [email protected] 21 points 7 months ago (3 children)

Monitoring and fostering a child's emotions and development via play is mentally taxing. Playing Legos, although fun, isn't exactly downtime.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 7 months ago (2 children)

My thought exactly. Unless his mood was so bad he just felt like vegetating for a few hours.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 7 months ago

Idk, probably just wanted a little alone time. Sometimes I need to be alone to decompress.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 7 months ago

It’s wholesome but kinda sad at the same time…🥲

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