My grandma said some dumb shit like this to my mom over Facebook. When she asked me why I wasnt coming over for Thanksgiving I told her, and she responds with something along the line of "it was a joke", "it was online", "it wasn't real", etc.
I said grandma, you called my mom a lazy bitch, I ain't talking to you until you apologize. She (on facebook) called me a spoiled millennial piece of shit. 🤷