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Welcome to our virtual third place, The Café.

Come on in and make a new human connection over a cup of coffee (or Teh Tarik). This is a casual community, do whatever you want, share your oyen pics, your frustrations, and even organize a weekend picnic with the community. The world is your oyster.

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I almost forgot that I promised my colleagues I'm going to get them karipap for breakfast.

Good news is, there are lots of karipap.

Bad news, they're out of karipap sardine 😢

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Hi this is your colleague, I dont mind other types of karipap la thank you hahahahahah

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

I love karipap oksigen. Energises the body, reinvigorates the soul and revitalises the member.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

We've finished the karipap kentang that inbought. Still good.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Just F.Y.I, we have Mandarin communities set up. Do participate if you would like to converse in Mandarin for a bit.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

English is my main language tbh, I only use Chinese when I'm with friends who mainly speak Chinese.

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (3 children)

I wasted my entire blood donation because I didn't eat enough beforehand and the nurse had to stop the donation halfway through. Felt like a total idiot and embarrassment in front of everyone who donated without a hitch

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Lost my wired earphones, gonna need to buy new earphones now. Cheek feeling hot talking on the phone for almost 50 mins. I miss the old sony 30 ringgit earphones. Think theyve discontinued it uhuk

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Stephen King's "The Shining"

I'm only 40% through, and man it's such an uncomfortable read at certain parts. His stories have some expected horror stuff, but the most scary horrors are the problems in ourselves.

Alcholism, bad temper, accidentally hurting the child and immediately regretting, regrets for bad life choices, uncertainty in the future, job insecurity...

It's like many problems you read hits a bit personally because there's everyone has a bit these problems. And the fear in the reading is not "oh shit a severed head" but it's a really personal reflection "shit am I like that; will I be like that?"

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

@unhedged ah yes, and famously written during his addiction years too - it feels so personal because it was :(

@imaginelizard

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Damn, no wonder he can articulate these dark thoughts so well.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

@unhedged ya, a lot of people speculate (i think he also confirmed a bit), a lot of The Shining was him working out how he could see he was also being a destructive force on his family. I think the fact was picked up by Kubrick, but his rendition of that, King famously hated.

@imaginelizard

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Why are you tagging imaginelizard?

I've read several of King's newer books and they seem to lack the oomph of his older stories. I wonder if his addiction-pickled brain writes better. Ya bad thought- maybe it's not correlated to addiction but it's age related.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

@unhedged Alamak, it was auto-tagged on my end (as the creator of the thread). And lol, you're basically saying conventional wisdom about his output tbh. The sober era one i like most is really his non-fiction On Writing.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

i like most is really his non-fiction On Writing.

Oh I'll have to get to that. I have the audiobook, but I've been avoiding most of his self-narrated books because he's not that good at reading haha. Not really bad at reading, just that his reading makes me sleepy. Which is very bad because my reading room is actually my car.

Which other fiction writers do you like? For now i'm in a rut of Stephen King and science fiction

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

@unhedged these days I'm in too much trying to catch up on nonfiction and longreads, so fiction dah lama not read anything current. That I even read King is a surprise because I'm a chicken with horror.

My choices quite common I think: Terry Pratchett for sure, but he's really a guy whose worldview really became nuanced the longer he went on that it's almost a crime to say start with the early books in discworld, but they're good to set the stage and also to see how the world developed (it's a very loose series so you can really dive in and out). The other one is CS Forester - he does the Horatio Hornblower books and it's really the worldview of a white British man who came of age before the British empire ended so it can be very rah-rah. But in the 1930s he's got a good gig writing for Hollywood so his novels really go very fast - the Crichton of his time lol. I want to get into contemporary science fiction but i get really impatient with what they think is important and what i think (lol) but that said, Ted Chiang and his short stories are sooooo berhantu - his high-concept stories always stick in my head.

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Man, I watered the grass in Klang, but KL is getting all the rain.

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[–] oyenyaaow 4 points 1 year ago (21 children)
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[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

TGIF... need to survive one last day this week 🥹

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (5 children)

Update: lots of shit happened. so not TGIF 😭

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Hihi. Not using my Leddit username here but going back and forth for now.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (6 children)

My butt and back hurt ( ಥ_ಥ)

Dem you, job

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

So.. You're butthurt?
Lol. Sorry.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)
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[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Taylor Swift Eras Tour (Singapore) tickets sale registration opens today at noon till 28/6.

This is not the ticket sale; this is registration so you can log in to buy tickets on 7/7 noon.

Purchasing itself is another problem for another day.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (21 children)

Double-checking for you guys on Lemmy: you can also see who upvoted right? It federates into a like on the microblog side.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I don't think we can see who upvote and downvote tho, else i'd love to see who's the serial downvoter lol if it happened here

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Queueing up to REGISTER to buy Taylor Swift concert tickets. This is just a taste of what's to come.

The bar is 350 pixels long. In 14 minutes, my progress was 18 minutes. Assuming linear progress on the bar, I expect to do it in...

350 px / 18px * 14 minutes = 272 minutes = 4.5 hours...

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