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And living in the US/western Europe. Eastern Europe and Asia weren't doing so hot

It seems like a pretty neutral phrasing to me. Like, the allies landing in Normandy was also an escalation. Doesn't necessarily mean it was a bad thing

Your original comment was saying that the term is inherently derogatory and offensive. I'm trying to explain that in this case I don't accept the framework of a derogatory terms but rather derogatory usages. That's like, my opinion. As a self identified tranny, who still identifies as such in a non porn context. As do lots of my friends on twitter.

Feel like we've already been over all this back when some people online decided "queer" is always a slur and started aggressively trying to police people from using it..

oh it was like, expressing desire to access the wheelhouse rather than questioning whether it exists D: sorry

Hm it might be good to have a conversation about cw policy on lemmy actually. If you post something I'll upvote it

there's other trans communities and other social norms online than r/mtf on reddit. People should be allowed to call themselves what they like imo, and you should probably try to make sure of the user's actual stance before policing their language.

It's weird, it's like a four way conflict between trans women, cis crossdressers, well meaning cis allies speaking over the former, and transphobes.

I think people should be allowed to call themselves what they like personally. But they should be able to veto what others call them. But setting a single universal norm doesn't make sense

~~They're both affected by transmisogyny and queerphobia? This shouldn't be hard to understand~~

Lemmy instances usually have a public modlog, you can look it up if you like

Yeah but some centrist democrats obsessed with being open minded and "reaching across the aisle" like to promote them.

Wait huge? Shouldn't Prod be the last place any changes go ?

pretty sure he hated his mom because she was bonkers abusive towards him