Scary_le_Poo

Lol this asshole can go fuck himself

GIGO.

Garbage in garbage out. You give a shit prompt, you generally get a shit answer.

https://aussie.zone/post/11842960

https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/comment/9769121

I didn't lie. The person gendered themselves as "goddess" and went nuts over people not capitalizing their pronouns.

Others have replied to your comments with links and receipts.

So, turns out, you're the one who is lying.

You say that I'm committing acts of violence out of hatred for people different from me. Nothing that I have said could be credibly construed as such.

You use the term "transphobe" in whatever way suits you as a bludgeon in order to try to "win" online discussions. That is scummy behavior. It's also pathetic. I pity you, that you have to debase yourself this much in an effort to make yourself seem credible. All the while showing your true colors; That you are weak, selfish, and willing to use another person's pain if it benefits you in some way.

Please, spend some time reflecting and stop putting so much value on "winning" an online discussion. There are no prizes here. When you make an argument in bad faith it shows everyone watching/reading that your position is flawed and that what you have to say as a whole can be largely ignored. This is undesirable because you may have many great things to say, but once your credibility is destroyed, it is very difficult to gain it back.

So I'm a transphobe for relaying an incident that actually happened now?

Or am I a transphobe for suggesting that guardrails are a good idea? I'm not suggesting gatekeeping pronouns or gender, but I would put forth that claiming one's gender as "goddess" and that their pronouns must be capitalized and if you don't you're misgendering them has about as much validity as some maga asshole saying that they identify as an attack helicopter.

Of course inclusiveness is important, but it is also important to have a firm foot on reality and recognize ridiculousness for what it is, and possibly more importantly, call it out.

Unfortunately, in the trans community, it has veered towards an "all things are valid" approach, however while that is great sentiment to have, it breaks down the moment someone abuses it in bad faith, whether it be a maga asshole, or someone claiming that they are a goddess (and should be recognized as such) and that their preferred pronouns MUST be capitalized or it's you misgendering them.

To be fair, blahaj zone is a bit of a mess. Let's not forget people trying to navigate the insane user insisting that their pronouns were goddess and going mental over claiming that people who didn't capitalize properly were misgendering them.

At some point, you have to set limits as to what you will tolerate. I understand that an all inclusive instance would be reluctant to do so. However, you'll end up with MAGAts doing shit like this for fun, just to see an entire instance bend over backwards to try to accommodate, and you will get genuinely insane people doing the same thinking that they are doing nothing out of the ordinary.

Interestingly enough, while I am not part of the lgbtq+tia community, I am a staunch ally and even I feel as though bz is a place I want to steer far away from.

Moderating that instance must be fucking exhausting.

Several. The experience has always been fantastic 10/10

Your argument is every bit as naive as it is noble.

People like you are why the rest of us can't have nice things.

Bullshit, straight up bullshit. It makes a difference at scale, but at scale it is miniscule when compared to even small mass polluters.

That's not to say you should live as pollution-causing as possible, but spare me the pearl clutching over my paper plate usage.

I went through and relate to all of these.