dazedandconfused

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 days ago (3 children)

Damn that's hot. After seeing your pictures, I must confess I'd love to see you getting your brains fucked out 🥵

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 days ago

Damn what a studly bottom. I've literally done that a couple of times, myself. It feels so good ♥️

[–] [email protected] 6 points 4 days ago (1 children)

I've been quite sick, and once I was mostly better I managed to pull a muscle in my back, so no real naughty fun to share.

Someone posted a regimen for increasing your semen volume. It's pretty similar to a set of supplements I was taking last year. I restarted just a few days ago and it's already definitely making a difference :-)

I also take a few saucy pictures/gifs I might share later this week.

[–] [email protected] 19 points 5 days ago

I get basically nowhere without kissing. Talking and touching don't really do it for me without the kissing. Even just a little polite peck gets the blood flowing.

Random acts of blowjob are the rare late night exception that prove the rule.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Actually I think the top in my favourite video might have been Jordan now that I think about it. I should post a clip here.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago

They have a place in my heart but not a special one. All the boys are nice. Just like I like more feminine and more masculine women, too 🙂

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

Have fun but be safe, my friend. Make sure you trust these niche sites before you use them. You can never know what the site is going to do with all you sensitive info.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 weeks ago

Since Lemmy didn't have one yet, I created [email protected]. In the future, I might type of some of these experiences as longer stories there, and just link them here with a short tl;dr: summary. But also feel free to post your own stories there ;-)

I've been sick for about a week, but I'm finally starting to feel better tonight! However, last week I was up in Boston. And while I was traveling with family, I still had my own hotel room, soo... why not have a little fun right? But just a little:

  • NYC Hinge date + sexy fun! Before I left the city I had a Hinge first date with a vers guy. I invited him to a museum invite I could take a +1 to. A lot of fun to have some cheese and champagne on the museum's dime :-P We had dinner in the neighborhood, and headed back to my place.
    • Pretty quickly things got steamy, with lot of touching, and pretty good kissing.
    • Guys about my size, a little leaner, a little less muscular. Still a nice chest to hold onto ;-)
    • Moved to the bedroom. He isn't quite as hung as I am, but plenty big enough for a fun time.
    • We start with him riding me, but I think after all the drinks I had had (2 + 2 + 1) that afternoon/evening, I wasn't really feeling it, so we just flipped.
    • Our boy can go hard and just keep going. He was fantastic with topping. A lot of energy, and just hard enough to hit the right spots once I gave him some encouragement. It was inspiring. I lost track of time for how long he went at it. Eventually we both were feeling stiff so went for a more relaxing and intimate side-by-side thing.
    • Like me, he's really into smiling, laughing, and even joking during sex. He remarked about that in the middle of fucking. It adds a lot to our chemistry together.
    • We finished by touching each other, kissing, and getting down to swallow each others' loads when it was time.
    • Was going to see him this week, but I'm still too sickkk :-(
  • Oral fun night 1: a nice product designer who's been visiting Boston for a month from Mexico city came over to my hotel room well after midnight. Normal build, cute face. Enjoyed giving each other blowjobs -- his was not too too big, so it was easy for me to focus on technique and practice more ways for him to get new pleasurable sensations. Big balls too. We share some pretty big loads with each other. Just hung out and shared Boston/Cambridge travels tips and restaurant/ice cream recommendations for another hour or so :-)
  • Oral fun morning 3: I woke up really early, and this guy showed up as just 83ft away on grindr. Tags hung, vers top, oral. I offered to come over and say a quick hello, and he asked, "How? With your mouth? :-)" and sure why not !
    • Handsome guy visiting from Philadelphia for a work conference, who had just gotten in last night.
    • Excellent kisser!
    • Really nice and rock hard throughout our time together, which was a real delight. He's a bit bigger than me, so yeah he deserved to call himself hung ;-) it was more of a challenge than my friend on night 1.
    • We kind of switched between who was in charge, which was fun for me, too.
    • He was gently jacking me off while I sucked him, which turned me on even more. After he came and I swallowed his (surprisingly sweet) cum, he took him time focused on returning the favor :-D
    • We exchanged info, apparently he comes to NYC a lot. We should probably flip fuck.
[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 weeks ago

All for me? 🫠

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (3 children)

I have such a thing for Kyle.

Edit: specifically in this one video "hotel fees" he takes dick do good and then excitedly tries to catch Brandt's load in his mouth.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 weeks ago

"Now kith."

This is my favorite kind of weird stupid stuff to do with another guy.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 weeks ago

Yes, indeed, cutie ♥️

 

Hey, if you’ve read some of my other posts, you know I’m bi. I don’t think we get to have gaydar :-( At least I don’t, given the number of times I’ve been hit on and only realized it days/weeks/years later.

Question: How do I figure out what this guy’s deal is without maybe losing a new potential bro friend, if that’s even possible?

Context: People don’t know I’m bi unless they ask, or unless I am dating them. I’ve been told by gay friends that I’m “straight as an arrow” :-P

Post-COVID I don’t really have many local friends, and no bros at all anymore. Live in NYC.

Situation: I was invited to a dinner party hosted by an extended friend circle. The hosts want to set me up with a cute lawyer, and yeah we hit it off and I’m asking her to go out on a date some time soon. No issues or concerns there.

Separate from that, there was a guy, let’s call him Ted. He’s not exactly my normal guy type (he’s tall), but I dunno, I like him. We also hit it off, he asked me a bunch of questions, I asked him, too. He’s new in town. He’s really good looking. Fit, sharp features, light eyes, a little tan, fairly hairy.

He was telling me about meeting up with a guy and they did a bunch of stuff out on the town together, and then Ted asked him, “Is this a date?” and the guy said “Yeah.” And Ted was like, “Cool!” I don’t think I gave him any indication that I’m into guys, it would have been a little scandalous since I just met the first and she was seated next to me.

He was seated next to me at dinner. Ted would often grab my arm or my shoulder (not hard) while talking to me, and look at me directly in the eyes while saying something. Sitting at the table, he’s often rub/bump his leg/knee against mine. Several times he moved his arm sideways (for no apparent reason), brushing his forearm hair against mine, which was absolutely electrifying. I might have a new kink, y’all…

Before leaving, he gave me his number, and later texted me that it was great to meet. I said we should find some time to hang out. He said he’s not going to be able to hang out this weekend (sister in town), but that next weekend will work for him. We have yet to work out the details.

Question: How do I figure out what this guy’s deal is without maybe losing a new potential bro friend, if that’s even possible?

Idea: I’ve been thinking about making some fairly neutral plans (museum, dinner/drinks), and just asking him at the beginning if this is a bro date or a date date. What else could I do that might work better? Do I not even bring it up and let him be a friend either way? Am I overthinking everything, as usual?

Thanks for coming to my sexually confused TED talk.

 

Like it's actually fun. A few folks at work know I broke up with my girlfriend of some time recently. When I later asked them to let me know if they know anyone nice to set me up with, I always use gender-neutral language. But every single one pretty much assumes women only, and frankly I'm okay with that. Everyone doesn't need to know everything. If they ever asked, I'll tell them.

However, the married gay guy made sure to ask me, "are you into girls, guys,…?" and people I felt so touched and seen that someone didn't just assume. He says his mind is tingling with ideas, and I'm sure if he and his husband make any intros they'll be great.

Finally, I totally have a work crush on a guy, and I feel so stupid about it. My work crush at my last company was also a smaller guy who kept it tight, which is a funny theme. This time though I'm pretty sure he's gay, based on a few different things including a pretty sexy insta. I just want to hold him and carry him around, and now I feel super weird when I see him or make eye contact. Ha here I am almost 40 and this guy still has me horned up like a teenager. Maybe one day I'll build up the courage to say something to him. Non work dating and hookups are so much easier though!

Anyway yeah, basically being in the closet at work is…fun!

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