eupraxia

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (3 children)
  1. why is letting off steam indicative of a weak character? I think that when under stress, it's actually indicative of someone being emotionally intelligent to recognize they need to let some stress out and find an avenue for it. I can't explain exactly why, but swearing has always been a pretty effective way for me to let out some stress mid conversation while staying focused on a problem.

  2. some contexts call for aggression. i.e. If someone's making me or someone I care about uncomfortable in public, it can be pretty useful to bare my teeth back. A simple "fuck off" doesn't require me to engage with any of their bullshit at all, gets the point across, and carries it with a mild aggression that actually does make people fuck off much of the time.

  3. it is imprecise, but in many contexts it's precise enough to convey displeasure and dismay enough to get the point across. In fact the power of "fuck you" is in how concise yet universally applicable and understandable in so many situations.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago

For some reason most of my partners have ended up being Cincinnati refugees. So I think I can second this. "it's a good place to be from" is a common refrain.

as a Colorado native I've disliked most every other person I've met from the state elsewhere, no particular reason outside luck of the draw I think

[–] [email protected] 14 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (5 children)

Much of the time communication isn't about being creative or coming off smart. It's about effectively conveying meaning with the tools you have. Sometimes that means simple, crude language is more effective at conveying something than all the wit in the world.

So when I'm in a situation that calls for its use, I don't care that "fuck off" is a dime-a-dozen phrase that doesn't make sense. It's never misunderstood, it's cathartic to say, and I don't need to think on the spot to figure out something more eloquent - my mind is on, y'know, who or what needs to fuck off instead.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago

I lost my chance to stop years ago

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Especially considering a lot of the creative talent behind Valve's acclaimed single player catalog are no longer at the company. Valve is a different company now and so their games will be different too.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

funny you say that, I'm drawing from some past cult-adjacent experiences when I think about the subject. there's definitely lots of overlap and I think a lot of the social motives are one and the same.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 month ago (2 children)

It happens in many different contexts and often I feel there's a logic to it. Lots of people who are marginalized in one way are privileged in another. Maintaining access to that privilege can also mean an expectation to maintain your own marginalization. If someone feels they end up better on the whole by doing so, and isn't deeply connected to others without that privilege, and doesn't feel safe navigating life without that privilege, it gets pretty easy to justify on a personal level.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

Detective Costeau hasn't figured it out yet, you haven't even met him yet, he's still sleeping off his last bender. Kim, on the other hand, already had your pronouns in his notes alongside a comprehensive psych eval

[–] [email protected] 19 points 3 months ago

Sure, but broadly reducing red meat consumption is a pretty good idea for a lot of reasons. I think you're acknowledging this re: factory beef farms, but I think it's important to call out and also to note that a like 80% plant-based diet can be nutritionally complete, not ridiculously expensive, and more sustainable.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (1 children)

Sorry, just now seeing this! Essentially there's two different routes (up or down) you can take, with two different sets of regions, bosses, and story beats for each. The "down" path is entirely complete, and there's two regions of the "up" path complete. So the entirety of the story isn't there yet, but what's there is very polished and there's at least one major story arc complete. There are a couple characters that don't have art yet and so they're placeholders visually, but they're fully voiced and the placeholders aren't too out of place. They've published a more detailed roadmap that seems pretty reasonable for them to deliver. Overall it seems like 70% done and I don't think what's there is even going to change too much by the 1.0 release.

As someone who's skeptical of a lot of EA models, this is in my mind the right way to do it. I've played for 30 hours so far and haven't finished the "down" path yet and I feel there's still going to be a decent bit of content left after I do. Imo it was well worth $30 in its current state!

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 months ago

Hmm... usually I prefer push-in 😇

[–] [email protected] 12 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (3 children)

Gotta say I'm glad we can be and date any genders we like these days with much milder pushback (on average) than used to be the case. Really does help zoomers be a lot healthier imo, even if we've got other issues in the internet age.

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