frogfruit

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[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

I don't watch commercials ๐Ÿคท

[โ€“] [email protected] 4 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Have you never searched through a sea of condiments, packaged foods you impulse bought weeks ago, and 13 different flavors of soda and sparkling water, and then not found what you're looking for so you have to repeat the whole process again and maybe a second time because you swear it should be in here and you must have just missed it before?

[โ€“] [email protected] 8 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

I'm not sure this is actually narcissism. I felt very similar throughout my teens, but it is something I grew out of in my early/mid 20s. I think there are a few reasons for this. Often, people just grow out of it, through brain development or just spending more time around other people. Empathy can also be intentionally strengthened like a muscle.

I studied psychology, neuroscience, philosophy, and logic to understand the general human mind. When you study a lot of things, you learn how little you know. You also get to see how much better other people are at certain things. I no longer assume I'm smarter than anyone else even if it's obvious in one particular subject or several subjects, because they are probably smarter than me in other ways.

I also saw a therapist and spent more time around other people. I made an effort to understand others' points of view, asking questions if needed, and really tried to imagine their life experiences and how they could come to feel or believe certain things. This will be an exercise at first but it eventually comes naturally for the most part.

[โ€“] [email protected] 9 points 1 month ago (1 children)

That seems fairly common in people with ADHD. My SO is one of those. It's definitely not the case for me, but I also have another condition that's exacerbated by caffeine.

[โ€“] [email protected] 18 points 2 months ago

Sponsored by BetterHelp ๐Ÿคฎ

[โ€“] [email protected] 3 points 2 months ago

Everyone I know wants to leave.

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago (1 children)

What kind of steroids?

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 3 months ago

The historical usage is that they're trash despite their whiteness. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/White_trash

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 3 months ago (1 children)

The civil war was mainly because one of the mods went on Fox News, and it did not go well.

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 3 months ago (1 children)

They can at least verbalize that they saw something funny so that I know they're actually willing/ready to share because I hate asking and then waiting as they finish watching/reading/texting.

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 4 months ago

It's not about the distraction. I can throw my phone across the room and still not be able to get up. I can remove all distractions, and I will still stare off into space and not get anything done.

[โ€“] [email protected] 8 points 4 months ago

Just go to the instance website and there will be a link to the modlog usually at the bottom of the page.

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