You say that there are plenty of instances, can you point me in the right direction?
Like I said, I'm not looking for a fight. I'm also not looking at making 1,000 posts on all manner of topics only to find myself banned from the entire server because of post number 1,001 which says that it is not logically possible to both male and a woman. This is my genuinely held belief, and I don't think the opposing viewpoint is so beyond reproach that my opposition isn't even worth engaging. This is the problem that I had on Reddit - pro-trans people would come into conservative subreddits and report dozens of people for hate-speech, which would result in a site-wide bans, rather than a subreddit bans. A sub-ban is one thing, but a site-wide ban is something totally different.
I'm just looking to avoid getting established on an instance that will ban me because I write down that, "Bruce Jenner isn't a woman," for example.
Thank you.