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lazyneet
Met a fellow 30something crossdresser and free software guy on Hinge. It seemed like a great fit. We met for coffee and talked for a few hours, then he told me he wasn't gay and didn't want to meet me again. For fuck's sake. My ass won't destroy itself. ๐ฅต๐ญ
Now that I've scrolled through 1000+ profiles and determined that they aren't gay enough for me (I don't really go for masc/closeted/straight-looking people and I try to limit the age range to 25-40s) I really need to figure out what the fuck part of this community I'm overlooking or not understanding. I'm willing to drop out of college and move for the right relationship. Ever since I became a gay femboy, things have gotten harder.
Grow your hair out and (if you're looking for things to buy) bleach/dye it.
Are long-term master/slave dynamics common in the gay community?
Have you explored sadomasochism? There are groups on fetlife that meet and may be open to a couple. The usual staple activities are bondage and flogging. Mix some pegging in if you like being more dominant. There are also more extreme kinks that your partner may be into (watersports, puke, fisting).
I'm a pan non-binary AMAB and I like femboys and anything BDSM.
I share pictures sometimes, but not because I enjoy swapping pictures or anything. It's more of a way to get feedback/affirmation. I don't think I would enjoy another long-distance relationship with just swapping pics. Some people do, and I don't judge. Text-based roleplay is interesting, but I think sites like Umbra have absorbed that community.
University of Oklahoma has an organization and there are probably more at other colleges in the state. I can attest to the difficulties of online dating. There may also be LGBTQ resources in your town or nearby, like a social gathering at a community center or something.
Replace him with a suitable substitute on some dating platform. If you're in a major city, that shouldn't be difficult. If you're out in the sticks like I am, alcohol may be your only friend. Maybe get a job or attend a college in a place where gays can be gay.
You should definitely grow your hair out too, if you aren't dealing with male pattern baldness. And paint your nails. Real sissies are in sissy mode all the time.
Women's shirts tend to fit the torso better than the loose cut of most men's shirts. There are different types (blouses, knits, crop tops) but they're all mixed together in the same section at the thrift store. It also helps to wear colorful socks. Don't forget hair clips, which serve the practical purpose of keeping hair out of your face. I have a set of 20 little colorful clips that look like flowers when I arrange them in my hair, and it only takes 5 minutes.
I told my first gf I was bi and she brought over her other boyfriend to tie me up and fuck my ass <3