It's just super frustrating seeing people who are supposedly my brothers and sisters, who I've been there to the hilt, who know that my partner is struggling, who know that I'm terrified. We've gone through the science and racial and class inequalities together and they've voiced how they should mask a hundred times. And then they come to meet me IRL totally fucking unmasked, without even a fucking apology.

Well, if you're "back to normal", I'll sit and watch you eat outside, but I'm not taking my mask off in front of you. I'll wait till you finish your meal, and I'll head home early. If I've complained about no masking two times already, you heard it enough, I'm not going to complain again.

Am I overreacting?

Edit: for those of griping that you're not allowed to do COVID minimisation in this comm. These would be valid answer:

Maybe your friend forgot
Maybe your friend was tired
Maybe your friend was hung over
Your friend made a mistake but you should forgive him
I'm not yet fully covid conscious, but I'm trying
We can't all be perfect. Hopefully they do better next time.

Not acceptable:

Oh here's a tidbit about masks that's been disproven in the science literature 10x already
Oh the chuds and libs aren't masking, and I feel peer pressured

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (1 children)

I was actually very surprised by the numbers. I had assumed it was a lot worse because I get most of my COVID news from Hexbear. I'm no expert, but judging by their methodology I felt it seemed like a fair test. The rate has fluctuated across the different seasons. Up and down. It just tracks with my lived experience: I had COVID non-stop a few years ago - I'd get it again near the end of my vaccine/natural immunity period every time. I haven't had it for almost a year now. It's the same for a lot of people around me too.

Perhaps the wool is being pulled over my eyes by business and the state. I don't know.