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Me, short answer no.

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[-] [email protected] 11 points 1 week ago

My wife's having a loud house party until 6am, which is pretty much my idea of hell.

So I went hiking and am staying overnight in a freezing country town. Right now I'm having dinner; further plans involve electric blankets and Netflix

[-] [email protected] 6 points 1 week ago

Woah your marriage is different from mine. I'm interested.

[-] [email protected] 6 points 1 week ago

I have some sensory issues around crowd noise; she is very much not the hike-in-the-mountains type. Rather than one or other of us having to be miserable, we each do our own thing when they'd otherwise conflict. Easy fix :)

[-] [email protected] 4 points 1 week ago

Very excellent. My partner and I do some hobbies separately, but I couldn't imagine throwing a party without him. (Given how few I've thrown, that would be a remarkable event for me.) Sensory issues absolutely make sense as a reason to avoid that, though.

I love and respect the way people with different preferences make relationships work... Power to you both!

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