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[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 months ago (2 children)

There's probably gonna be some sort of terminological split in definitions between the two at some point.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

It's very interesting that you say that because it's one of the reasons why I don't simply call myself "asexual" and why I don't identify with the community.

I remember discovering the asexual community over 10 years ago and being excited that I finally found people that are like me. But then I was immediately met with confusion at how...sexual...everyone was. People would masturbate regularly or even have sex regularly. I didn't get it and it didn't seem to fit to me.

A better descriptor for me would be someone that has a non-existent libido and cannot physically feel sexual pleasure, but that's a bit tmi for a general post.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 months ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 months ago

That sounds quite a bit more narcissistic than just not having any sexual interest in others.