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Thank you. You don't think that speaking up would be more embarrassing for the man that what already happened? I feel terrible that I didn't act more appropriately in the moment, but I was too shocked to think of a good response to the situation.
My impulse would be to say something like, “excuse me, but the gentleman behind me is still waiting in line!” in a loud enough voice to draw a bit of attention. Gives the cashier space to pretend they didn’t notice him while letting him know you noticed that shit and you’re not OK with it. Also gives other cashiers and patrons nearby the opportunity to be cool and let him jump in line or help him on another lane. As long as it’s focused on the rude behavior of closing a lane without ringing up everyone in the queue, hopefully not too embarrassing for the poor dude behind you.
That cashier was a fucking dickhead. Not your fault you didn’t react in the heat of the moment, that would catch me off guard too!
I think speaking up would have allowed the clerk an opportunity to defend himself.
That is one of the most important reasons to speak up: silently judging people offers them no opportunity to dispel your assumptions about them.
I don’t know the answer to that. But if he didn’t speak up for himself I would have done so for him. Racism is unacceptable.
Yeah! You obviously know what’s better for him than he does about himself.
Homie might have severe anxiety and then you throwing gas on the fire would make it way worse.
My fucking heart rate is up just thinking about it
Cool, be complicit with it
Do you think it's racist to presume only people of particular races need your help and protection?
Lmao