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[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago (1 children)

oh boy

I dunno what the fuck kinda beliefs my dad has, he smokes weed and is sort of an original hippie but not really. I wish he had anything as coherent as religion for me to work with... You might be right about brainworms though, I did seem to get through talking about Israel being a dog of the US empire... just not so much when the conversation turned to Palestinians.

dad (to mom): "no, she's a socialist, it's different"

I guffawed. My dad definitely has seeds of dissatisfaction, I just don't know how to build from "the government needs to do more healthcare and housing" to 'boomer guy stops being incredibly racist to the entire Arab world'. Big task...

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago (1 children)

spoilercuddle

I wish he had anything as coherent as religion for me to work with... You might be right about brainworms though, I did seem to get through talking about Israel being a dog of the US empire... just not so much when the conversation turned to Palestinians.

Damn yeah, I mean in my case any little breakthrough I'd push on, really just find those cracks and moments of vulnerability and genuineness, places where they want to listen and you can see their kind self shining through.

I guffawed. My dad definitely has seeds of dissatisfaction, I just don't know how to build from "the government needs to do more healthcare and housing" to 'boomer guy stops being incredibly racist to the entire Arab world'. Big task...

Yeah, it might be too big a task for a single person, honestly. People need to want to change and listen, after all...

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago (1 children)

spoiler

yea I will continue chipping away, I'll try. Ugh men, why is it like this...

I hope it's not, if he's beyond help with that I'm not gonna hang around much, like fuck that.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago (1 children)

spoilergood luck, if you want to chat anytime let me know!

I can't remember if I ever technically went full NC with my parents, but I had to set boundaries. I could have been nicer, I used to hang up on them when they started pissing me off. Years on years of fighting with them. I had growing and trauma to deal with, so did they...

For me, there were loads of times where I needed to back off, assert myself and say things like "you will use my pronouns or I will hang up." I think that sometimes doing nothing (like, giving them space etc.) can help, actually. For years, I didn't tell them I loved them. But now I see their squishy little souls, kind and damaged, and I appreciate how much work they've done to be better for me. I still refuse to see my extended family, as you know. Some people aren't worth it. I hope to find people that I can relate to that I can call family someday instead.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago (1 children)

spoiler

Ty kirby-wave

but I had to set boundaries. I could have been nicer, I used to hang up on them when they started pissing me off.

waow-based Uncritical support, I love to see it.

assert myself and say things like "you will use my pronouns or I will hang up." I think that sometimes doing nothing (like, giving them space etc.) can help, actually.

Yeah I've done this a few times with them over gender stuff. Wonder if I should just dig in my heels about dad being a giant fucking racist...

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago (1 children)

spoiler

Yeah I've done this a few times with them over gender stuff. Wonder if I should just dig in my heels about dad being a giant fucking racist...

If it's bothering you, maybe? I prefer to be kind, but sometimes that's not possible... I hate to say it, but only you can decide where that line is. Your feelings matter too (this is a thing I wish I heard when I was initially being too nice to my parents) and it's okay to ditch bad people, even if you are related, and it doesn't have to be permanent.

(again, just like, my opinion)

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago (1 children)

spoilerMy dad is one of those HAMAS IS TRAINING KIDS TO BE TERRORISTS guys and was a THEY SHOULD JUST GO BLOW UP AFGHANISTAN guy, it bugs the shit out of me, even though it's not personal. I hate this shit, it's more ideological, Idk...

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago (1 children)

spoileroof. I mean, I would take that a little personally tho, tbh. Only difference between me and Hamas is where I was born, really. I'm not really content with just being in an "in-group" of Good People Who Do Not Deserve To Be Indiscriminately Bombed, because that feels just like a roll of the dice, where if anything were slightly different, they might as well be saying they should blow me up...

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

spoilerMe either, I try not to sit comfortably and let shit like that slide. I guess I'll start digging in my heels harder.

I mean it's not like I sat comfortably last time he brought it up, we had a huge protracted fight over it. He called "no politics" in the end but maybe I should break truce lol