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What is Neurodivergence?

It's ADHD, Autism, OCD, schizophrenia, anxiety, depression, bi-polar, aspd, etc etc etc etc

“neurologically atypical patterns of thought or behavior”

So, it’s very broad, if you feel like it describes you then it does as far as we're concerned


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1.) ableist language=post or comment will probably get removed (enforced case by case, some comments will be removed and restored due to complex situations). repeated use of ableist language=banned from comm and possibly site depending on severity. properly tagged posts with CW can use them for the purposes of discussing them

2.) always assume good faith when dealing with a fellow nd comrade especially due to lack of social awareness being a common symptom of neurodivergence

2.5) right to disengage is rigidly enforced. violations will get you purged from the comm. see rule 3 for explanation on appeals

3.) no talking over nd comrades about things you haven't personally experienced as a neurotypical chapo, you will be purged. If you're ND it is absolutely fine to give your own perspective if it conflicts with another's, but do so with empathy and the intention to learn about each other, not prove who's experience is valid. Appeal process is like appealing in user union but you dm the nd comrade you talked over with your appeal (so make it a good one) and then dm the mods with screenshot proof that you resolved it. fake screenies will get you banned from the site, we will confirm with the comrade you dm'd.

3.5) everyone has their own lived experiences, and to invalidate them is to post cringe. comments will be removed on a case by case basis depending on determined level of awareness and faith

4.) Interest Policing will not be tolerated in any form. Support your comrades in their joy!

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so horrifically in touch with everything I'm bad at, every way I just do not fit what other people expect

omori-miserable

tell me you know that feel, please

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

I understand the feeling of not fitting into other's expectations, but I still haven't been able to find a place to get tested so I can't share that exact experience. I'm so sorry it's making you feel worse.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

meow-hug thank you ❤️❤️❤️

I'd share the link for the person I went to, who is totally online but I think only for patients in Ohio, so probably not helpful to you

if you (or anyone else reading this) are in Ohio and would like the info, please DM me, I'm happy to share.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 11 hours ago* (last edited 11 hours ago) (1 children)

I really hope it gets better for you somehow.

Ugh, yeah I'm not in OH but thank you. Do you mind sharing how you went about finding them? Like was it a complicated process?

[–] [email protected] 4 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

just searching for neurodivergent-friendly therapists and happened upon one who did autism assessments through this directory

[–] [email protected] 4 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

Thank you! I'm definitely going to check this out

[–] [email protected] 4 points 8 hours ago

hope you find someone as lovely as I did. she really was as compassionate and kind as anyone could possibly be, it's just a difficult subject to probe