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If you could go back in time and talk to your younger self, what would you say? (programming.dev)

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Imagine being able to travel back in time and have a conversation with your younger self. What words of wisdom or advice would you share? What experiences or lessons learned would you want them to know about?

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Are you me? It would have been so much easier if I'd come out like, 10yrs ago. At least I would have been on my parents insurance.

I'll throw in "stop being afraid of the furry community you fucking dumbass; they're a hell of a lot nicer than your current """friends"""".

[–] [email protected] 3 points 22 hours ago

I don't think I'm you, and I think it would have been harder for me to come out 10 years ago. The trajectory of my life would be completely different if I had, and my family that's cool with it almost certainly wouldn't have been as cool with it then.

Still, wish I could have gotten on estrogen WAY earlier for more effetmcts U.U Oh well.