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[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Yep, been there. I go to her place, first time we ever met. Within a few minutes she makes me promise I will not be penising her. I agree because I'm only a part time dbag, not 100% a dick.

The night gets interesting, we both drink way more than we should on a first meet, lots of handsy action and everything but the agreed upon limits of consent.

"Why won't you?"
"You made me promise I wouldn't."
"Please?"
"No, but I'll do anything else you'd like."
"Whhhhyyyyyy"

This went on for hours. Never saw her again because she was apparently so upset I kept my promise, she didn't want to see me again. It's a weird sometimes-regret where I know I did exactly what I should have done, but had I not we both would have had more fun and maybe have had a repeat encounter.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Regarding your regret, I know it's not much, but this internet stranger is proud of you for sticking to your promise.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Thanks, truly appreciate that. I know it can be difficult in the heat of the moment to stick to a promise like that, and I could easily have had a moment of weakness.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Bro, you are a man of your word. That shit is fucking rare these days.