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If she was bad enough for you to kick her out of her life, do your children really deserve to have that be let back in?
As with any human relationship, there's a whole range of nuance missing that would be impossible for me to cover off here.
All I can say is that, as she's reached old age, my mother's become quite the doting grandparent. All the bullshit my siblings and I have a problem with aren't present when she's with her grandchildren.
Still, Wouldnt be the first time that an abusive person put on the good doting grandparent act, until the parents backs were turned. Make sure you talk to your kids and have an air of openness and honesty with them so they'll tell you, truthfully, if grandma is back to her old tricks.
I never said abusive