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[–] [email protected] 52 points 1 year ago (10 children)

Are zoomers really like this?

[–] [email protected] 28 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I'm 40. I don't even answer the phone if it rings. If it's important they can leave a message.

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[–] [email protected] 27 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Sorry if I don't think minor topics are worthy of the immediate attention needed for a phone call?

Phone calls are reserved for emergencies. Otherwise you're just demanding the instant attention of someone for nothing.

[–] [email protected] 44 points 1 year ago (19 children)

Not demanding, asking. Declining a call is always an option.

[–] [email protected] 22 points 1 year ago

I like to compare calling to someone knocking on your door incessantly for several seconds.

You can ignore it or decline to answer. It's still annoying af.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago (3 children)

So why call in the first place? And how will I ever know what the call was about? Unless you text, of course, so why not just do that in the first place?

You may not intent for it to be a demand, but unless you have your phone on silent, it will keep ringing and making noise until you do something about it. It demands an action, and tries to get your attention as much as possible.

Which is why it's designated to emergencies. This makes calling more useful as well, because now you know calls are more important, and can actually treat them with more urgency. Otherwise you're just gonna end up ignoring what may be an actual emergency, because you treat every phone call the same.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago (7 children)

Gen X here, only had a smartphone 5 years as before I was avoiding it. Typing is painful. Just answer the phone and we'll get that query sorted in less time than I would take to type the initial question. Don't be a big baby about it.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago

Millennial here and totally agree. There are times I don't feel like talking and I simply don't answer. How hard is it to answer normally though? If it's not during work hours... If I'm busy I just call back. No idea why this is a weird awkward thing for so many

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago (7 children)

Did you know, as with most things, typing on a phone is a skill that improves with use. Get with the times, don't be a big baby about it

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Why is humanity like this? Can we just agree that different people like to do different things?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Fair, I got a little triggered lol

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (2 children)

If it was not important enough to type it out, you can tell me next time we meet. I'll stop answering your call after the second nonsense call you make.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Such a sense of entitlement. You're not royalty.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Nor are you entitled to anyone else's time or attention.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

I never said if someone doesn't answer they're an asshole. Unlike what you're saying about incoming phone calls.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

You have a psychological problem. You in therapy I hope?

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Can you elaborate on why you think this is a psychological problem?

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

lol exactly why my phone is on silent

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

When you decline a call you don't know what it's about. The only thing I can think of when I family member calls and I decline a call is that they needed desperate help/were in an emergency and I just hung up on them.

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[–] [email protected] 17 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Phone calls aren't reserved for anything. They're just phone calls. I'm a huge introvert but it's like in one particular way millions of people decided to try and be the most annoying introvert possible

[–] [email protected] 17 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I don't think all zoomers are, but a LOT of the people I know are TERRIFIED of phone calls. I was like that too, before I started applying for jobs and had to make like 3 calls a week.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago

Yeah, I'm a millennial and use to have terrible phone anxiety. It prevented me from being able to get a job for a long time. I would always try to go in person instead because it was less anxiety inducing but never got a job that way.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Gen-x'r here who doesn't even have the phone app on my home screen.

Fuck phone calls!

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

That's about outgoing calls. Incoming calls still will be fullscreen pop-ups

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Depends on the status of the phone when the call arrives.

One thing I enjoy about the Pixel phone experience is the call screening feature. Having a transcript of the callers reason for calling has been a great bonus!

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (2 children)

It's more of a Millenial thing. I'm 35 and I don't pick up the phone ever unless it's an emergency or a job interview.

[–] [email protected] 18 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I'm 36 and if you want to call me, then fine? Who cares? I don't get why it's such a big deal.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago

It absolutely is not a big deal, this thread is bonkers

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

How do you know it's an emergency if you don't pick up the phone

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