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[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

How bad i am at communicating. Not all of our issues stem from this, but i did start to realize that i am terrible at saying what needs to be said to be understood.

I also found out how different people are. Everyone is motivated by something different. If you don't spell out your motives, then the other person is gonna assume they're the same as their own and completely miss your point.