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[–] [email protected] 45 points 1 year ago (3 children)

This is (usually) the result of years of not being to openly label yourself, hiding who you are, and feeling alone and not part of a broader community.

Just like a compressed spring will then expand after being let go before returning to a more balanced state, when society slowly gave queer people the space to at least exist openly, people started looking really deeply at "who they are" and "what communities do I belong to" and "how do I find what I want in a sea of diversity" which in turn gave rise to surprisingly specific microlabeling.

The tendency is for this to tone down, with broader categories. But who knows, we can't really predict language and societal change like that.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago

I saw that in myself actually. I used to look for a very specific label to describe myself with, now I just go with "mostly man I guess"

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

That would explain why hbt -> hbtq -> htbqi -> hbtqi+ (and probably more that I don't know about).

I was very confused when this started early on, when trying to do right and using the correct label/word, just to learn there was a new letter to the acronym.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Homophobic, biphobic, transphobic

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago

That makes sense, thanks.