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If you're white and have a certain wasp "look" about you, they could think you're "safe" to talk to
This is a good point, I'm a slavic immigrant so not exactly waspy but still very much a mayo verriety. But these have also been fairly multicultural places which is even more bizarre.
Yeah I'm from a small town in the rural south and it always happens. It's unreal how many people think it's cool to just start saying slurs to strangers.
I find it funny when people will go off about immigrants and I have to remind them that I'm an immigrant. Often gets quite awkward but then they'll say "yeah but you're one of the *good ones *"
Yep. I'm white and have greying hair and a beard, and I've had instances where strangers will come up to me and start chud-talking like I'm one of them.
I'm not really a confrontational type, so I'll just "uh huh" my way through these encounters without looking at them until they get the hint and leave. I realize I'm adding to the problem by passively letting them have their one-sided rants, but my social anxiety keeps me from telling them to fuck off and that I don't agree with them.