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How old were you? (lemmy.blahaj.zone)

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How old were you when you began questioning/considering you weren't "normal"? I'm in my 30s and almost all at once feel like I'm not sure what I am in most demensions and struggling to figure out what I feel about anything. I've been married, happily for a while, which adds a little to the confusion.

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I was in my late 20s when I learned what a-spec meant and how it applied to my life. It wasn't til my mid 30s that I fully embraced that I'm asexual and agender. I'm now transitioning in the best non binary way, but still have no idea how to approach romance or sex until I transition.

I guess, the truth is that foundations are the same in any relationship. If they don't respect, at the least, your sexuality or gender or romantism, then it isn't a worthwhile relationship

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I'm not sure what "a-spec" means, and my best assumption at the current time is that I am somewhere in the non-binary area, but the romantic part of the spectrum is definitely new to me as of the last couple weeks.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago

A-spec = Ace/Asexuality spectrum