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A "Showerthought" is a simple term used to describe the thoughts that pop into your head while you're doing everyday things like taking a shower, driving, or just daydreaming. The best ones are thoughts that many people can relate to and they find something funny or interesting in regular stuff.

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 6 months ago (3 children)

First step to polyamory is consent.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 6 months ago

Hence the wannabe qualifier

[–] [email protected] 4 points 6 months ago (1 children)

If I've learned anything from all those documentaries about cults, it's that the first step to polygamy is identifying a vulnerable population

[–] [email protected] 1 points 6 months ago

Polygamy is fucked up

Polyamory is cool

[–] [email protected] 3 points 6 months ago (1 children)

That’s the difference between polygamy and polyamory

[–] [email protected] -1 points 6 months ago (1 children)

You have to be a special kind of stupid to actually believe that

[–] [email protected] 6 points 6 months ago (2 children)

I always knew I was special.

Polyamory tends to be very focused on consent and the ethics involved. Polygamy tends to be pushed by religion to ensure an unequal power distribution.

What do you have an issue with?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 6 months ago

Well, even then, the differences between a paradigm of romance, and a state-supported power-structure... Are not just 'consent', now, are they?

[–] [email protected] 0 points 6 months ago (2 children)

Your implicit separation of religion from concepts like ethics and consent

[–] [email protected] 1 points 6 months ago

Can any religious practice ever be done with consent?

Isn't it always under duress when an eternity of damnation and unending torment is at stake?

[–] [email protected] 0 points 6 months ago

Sorry, holdover from catholic school. I should have specified: oppressive social movements couched in religion.