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[–] [email protected] 9 points 10 months ago (2 children)

Being mean is easy. Being nice is challenging.

How do i be kind? Is it a mix of the two? Is it something else?

[–] [email protected] 5 points 10 months ago

To me being nice is like breathing. Everyone is different and it's beautiful. I'd first consider if you're sure you're not perfect the way you are. 😊

[–] [email protected] 3 points 10 months ago

This is just what I think: If being mean is easy, it's because you have a lot of pain inside of you. Once you aren't full of pain, it becomes very difficult to be cruel. It makes you feel sick and wrong. I think your core is goodness and kindness. I think you know it a million times better than being mean because it's what you are. I think that's why you're here now.