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Being mean is easy. Being nice is challenging.
How do i be kind? Is it a mix of the two? Is it something else?
To me being nice is like breathing. Everyone is different and it's beautiful. I'd first consider if you're sure you're not perfect the way you are. 😊
This is just what I think: If being mean is easy, it's because you have a lot of pain inside of you. Once you aren't full of pain, it becomes very difficult to be cruel. It makes you feel sick and wrong. I think your core is goodness and kindness. I think you know it a million times better than being mean because it's what you are. I think that's why you're here now.