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Just wondering if anything good is happening somewhere. Maybe some local organizing wins? Would be nice to see something positive happening.

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 5 months ago (1 children)

When you gotta spend all day with someone it's good to stay friendly with them

[–] [email protected] 6 points 5 months ago (1 children)

It's funny now that you mention that. I always used that justification to try and keep on the good side of my coworkers, but never myself

[–] [email protected] 3 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (1 children)

I find myself sometimes thinking of my(past/future/criticism-receiving)self as a separate person because it reframes my treatment of that person. Sometimes I give the next guy a gift by cleaning shit up or otherwise preparing stuff to make his life easier, and thank the last one for his gift.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 months ago

I have been doing that and it really helps! Self criticism becomes much more human and empathetic when I realize that I can accept the things that I find wrong in myself in other people