this post was submitted on 06 Mar 2024
40 points (90.0% liked)

Ask Lemmy

26391 readers
727 users here now

A Fediverse community for open-ended, thought provoking questions


Rules: (interactive)


1) Be nice and; have funDoxxing, trolling, sealioning, racism, and toxicity are not welcomed in AskLemmy. Remember what your mother said: if you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all. In addition, the site-wide Lemmy.world terms of service also apply here. Please familiarize yourself with them


2) All posts must end with a '?'This is sort of like Jeopardy. Please phrase all post titles in the form of a proper question ending with ?


3) No spamPlease do not flood the community with nonsense. Actual suspected spammers will be banned on site. No astroturfing.


4) NSFW is okay, within reasonJust remember to tag posts with either a content warning or a [NSFW] tag. Overtly sexual posts are not allowed, please direct them to either [email protected] or [email protected]. NSFW comments should be restricted to posts tagged [NSFW].


5) This is not a support community.
It is not a place for 'how do I?', type questions. If you have any questions regarding the site itself or would like to report a community, please direct them to Lemmy.world Support or email [email protected]. For other questions check our partnered communities list, or use the search function.


Reminder: The terms of service apply here too.

Partnered Communities:

Tech Support

No Stupid Questions

You Should Know

Reddit

Jokes

Ask Ouija


Logo design credit goes to: tubbadu


founded 1 year ago
MODERATORS
 

Dating apps are often a miserable experience for the participants, however for some reason they are quite popular and at times can be quite addictive.

you are viewing a single comment's thread
view the rest of the comments
[–] [email protected] 0 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (2 children)

And how could that be improved/resolved?

[–] [email protected] 3 points 7 months ago

Maybe make it a non-profit like Signal. As soon as the motivation is maximising share holder values, the goal becomes to extract as much value out of the customers. And effective dating apps should not want their customers to return. It’s a conflict of interest.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Somebody really passionate about it has to make one and not sell it or make it publicly tradable? Which would be difficult since the market is rather full (I would guess). Also dating can be just a miserable experience if one lacks self esteem and does not fit into societal expectations of desirability - that's not on dating app problem.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 7 months ago (1 children)

It still has to be economically viable. Even if someone made one with good intentions, there'd still have to be a way to keep it afloat. How would you go about doing that?

Also dating can be just a miserable experience if one lacks self esteem and does not fit into societal expectations of desirability - that's not on dating app problem.

I actually think that a good and popular dating app would theoretically solve that as the dating pool would be much larger.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 7 months ago

It still has to be economically viable. Even if someone made one with good intentions, there’d still have to be a way to keep it afloat. How would you go about doing that?

There is a wide range between maximizing for profit and making a project viable.

I actually think that a good and popular dating app would theoretically solve that as the dating pool would be much larger.

On one hand, on the other people get more picky with more choice. Dating is not a technological but a societal issue.