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My girlfriend has never really gamed. But she’s now forced to move less than she would like to (health problem) and she’s getting bored. I was thinking of introducing her to a game or two that we could play together. She’s not the real action game type, and seeing as she has no experience with controller/mouse and keyboard I was thinking starting simple.

I can’t think of anything else than Factorio, as she likes organizing/keeping track of stuff.

Would you recommend against that or have anything better in mind? Let me know!

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)
[–] [email protected] 4 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

I played Minecraft with my gf before but she didn't really enjoy it. The only game I've seen her play a lot of is Civ 6.

This time on Minecraft I started a server with some friends and she's having a blast. She made a cute little house and she has built a "girl-cave" where she and her friend shares cake. It's so wholesome.

In case you she's new you could probably play a LAN world on peaceful. That's what I did back when I started.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 9 months ago (1 children)

My partner wasn't into video games, but I got her into them. One she was really into is stardew valley. It's really chill and low stakes. Might be a good one to try.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 9 months ago

Or somewhat similar (though lacking that late game content) Roots of Pacha

[–] [email protected] 4 points 9 months ago

One more recommendation I haven't seen here - Dave the Diver. A cosy blend of underwater exploration, collecting, and selling sushi!

[–] [email protected] 3 points 9 months ago (2 children)

Overcooked could be fun and easy to get into.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 9 months ago

That shit is STRESSFUL

[–] [email protected] 2 points 9 months ago

They're gonna break up if they play overcooked xD

[–] [email protected] 3 points 9 months ago (1 children)

sorry i don't know enough about multiplayer or local multiplayer games although if you're looking for a Co-op game i would recommend It Takes Two. it's simple but has its own charm. beware it's a third person game and has some shooting sections in it but it's beginner friendly enough.

i think city builders and management/tycoon games would be great for these situations cause if you like them there's no upper limit on playtime. cities skyline and RollerCoaster Tycoon are both great. if you're looking for something like factorio satisfactory could also work.

of course adventure games or puzzle games are also a great fit since most of them tend to have simple controls but great story and humor and hard puzzles that can keep you busy while solving them is satisfying. i've made a post recently on this community asking for people's recommendations so definitely check that out.

there's also this lovely little game called Townscaper. it's really simple you just add or remove blocks on a non-rectangular grid on a sea and the game tries to generate a pleasant looking town. it might sound lackluster on paper but it's fun and you can get some hours out of it developing your town and discovering the town style rules (there is also some hidden structures that can pop up discovering those is also fun).

[–] [email protected] 3 points 9 months ago

I was going to suggest Adventure games too. Games like the Broken Series series, Sam and Max games, Sherlock Holmes and a large variety of puzzle games like Machinarium. There is a huge selection to choose from. A lot of them tell stories, are humorous and engaging

[–] [email protected] 3 points 9 months ago

My wife wanted to check out gaming and tried many of the games mentioned here. Only two landed in any real way. Unpacking and animal crossing. Neither need you to really understand how to game very much. Unpacking especially. If you know how to move elements on a desktop, you can fully play unpacking. She filled each save file on it and adores it.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Half the heavy hitters in Elder Scrolls Online are house wives because it’s a game where you get more power just for putting time into it. Also the collecting of pretty outfits.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 9 months ago

Came here to say the same.

ESO, Guild Wars 2 - or even Final Fantasy XIV, Genshin Impact or WarFrame - will provide an interesting world, lore, objectives, opportunities for group and co-op play (or PvP if that’s her thing; she might not know it yet).

Girl+noob doesn’t have to mean farming/building games. Unless, again, she realises it’s her thing.

And outfit fashion is the True End Game™️ for so many online games. Warframe calls it FashionFrame. 😄

[–] [email protected] 3 points 9 months ago

For puzzles, absolutely unpacking, also have seen similar friends put time into that remodel game that escapes me right now. House Fixer maybe?

It is more action, but I have had success during covid with family who was trapped at home by introducing them to Mass Effect (on story mode, the easiest setting). The story is so engrossing through the three games that they overlooked the action. If she likes big stories, I would suggest that. On keyboard and mouse it's not the most confusing game either, pretty simple.

If you were thinking Factorio but want to do it together, check out Satisfactory. It's a 1st person version of it that supports multiplayer, and you could set up a dedicated server. (I'm biased though, I have over 2000 hours in it and I am a mod of [email protected]). Satisfactory is definitely less intimidating than factorio for newbies to the factory building environment, and there's a creative factor in there too.

I've also had luck with people giving them portal. Portal is a great game to introduce them to not anction gameplay but helps them learn movement controls. Honestly out of the three I suggested maybe portal first and go from there. Would introduce movement, a weapon, and the second has a pretty strong story.

For anything else, what are her interests, what does she do for a living? Maybe we can put forward some more.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 9 months ago

Baldur's Gate 3.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 9 months ago

Dark Picture games with it being coop and story driven so easier for new comers to get into with less reflexes being involved.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 9 months ago

My SO doesn't like gaming as well, but we play Bejuweled 3 together. It is not multiplayer but we take turns everytime it's game over. It's very relaxing and addictive and kills time pretty quick.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 9 months ago

The Bloons tower defense games are pretty fun and have co-op, you can take it slow and the upgrade system has a lot of fun little upgrades to manage.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

Satisfactory. Lots to organize and build. A bit of a learning curve if you want to get complex, but if you want to keep things simple it's really doable.

No Man's Sky. Space exploration, building, and all round reason to goof about for hours. (Free to play this weekend on all platforms.)

Both games have a great community.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 9 months ago

If you're a fan of 80s-90s action movies check out "broforce". There are some multiplayer "single stick shooters"out there that are quite fun, vampire survivors comes to mind. Don't starve together is a great multiplayer experience. Others have said stardew valley, and I agree with them, if single player is desired check out animal crossing. Satisfactory is the 3-D version of factorio, with fewer resources constraints and less enemy aggression, Dyson sphere program is factorio tuned the opposite way. Rimworld and dwarf fortress are both highly recommended "run your own city, but in a passive manner"games

[–] [email protected] 3 points 9 months ago (1 children)

A short hike. It's like a super short cosy version of breath of the world's platforming/exploration

[–] [email protected] 3 points 9 months ago

Seconded. Nice and chill, with just a touch of coming-of-age parents-aren't-invincible melancholy.
Using A Short Hike as a jumping off point and following the growing-pains and melancholy threads while maintaining the explore-and-talk aspects, I'd like to recommend Night in the Woods.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 9 months ago

No experience with games? Has she watched you play games, did she have favourites from those? Are there certain IPs she likes that would help?

My sister is now a casual gamer. The games that got her into it are Kingdom Hearts just via Disney branding and Uncharted (which she liked watching people play due to the Nathan Drake) which slid her to her favourite series Tomb Raider.

I recommend going that route instead of trying to find some weird fit since if she likes Harry Potter for example one of the best solutions regardless of the time you put in will be Hogwarts Legacy.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 9 months ago (1 children)
  • Mindustry. It's easy Factorio.
  • The Trine Games.
  • Warframe maybe.
  • Portal 2.
  • Dungeon Defenders 2 maybe.
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[–] [email protected] 3 points 9 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago)

When first starting out, I think relaxed games that help a player get used to left and right directions (side-scrolling or platform) and timing on the controls is a good start. Then evolve into camera and movement based controls.

My suggestions are starting with these:

My Brother Rabbit

The Between Gardens

Dawn (may have some camera control, but this is the most relaxing game I've played for that)

Then move on to these:

La Rana

The Room Series

Aim Labs or any shooting game that has tutorials/ practice mode (for FPS practice)

These games are found on steam. Note, most of these are casual/puzzle based.

I don't have much experience with co-op, so can't help you there. But I do like the suggestions so far based on reviews.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 9 months ago (2 children)
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[–] [email protected] 3 points 9 months ago

Phogs is a game where you a control a dog-dog (Remember Cat-Dog from Nickelodeon? That, but double dog) through a series of themed worlds solving puzzles. The themes are things puppies are interested in (eating, sleeping, and playing). The game is meant to be played co-op, but I believe it can be played alone.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 9 months ago

I'm really surprised I haven't seen them mentioned here (and apologies if someone did suggest it and I missed it!).

The Monkey Island games. Super simple controls, as most of it is point and click. Not expensive to get into, so no big loss if it ends up not being her thing. They are silly and clever, and reward the player for being silly and clever. They are puzzle games that require some attention to detail and curiosity to solve, but there isn't any "fail" condition. You just don't progress if you can't solve the puzzle. It doesn't assume any prior game knowledge or habits; a lot of games will expect the player to be familiar with certain controls or tropes commonly used in games, but Monkey Island is more similar to a "choose your own adventure" style story.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 9 months ago

My wife loves House Flipper. It's very much about organising, it sounds like it would fit well for her.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Elden Ring

Carve her into a gaming god.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 9 months ago

Wilmot's Warehouse!

It's an organizing game & you're a little guy! (:

[–] [email protected] 2 points 9 months ago

Here are a few I didn't see already. I've played these all on switch.

Untitled Goose Game - casual and goofy 1/2 player puzzle game

Far Lone Sails - casual 1 player puzzle adventure game

Figment - light action adventure platformer one player game

[–] [email protected] 2 points 9 months ago

If she would like to get in to more action games, one with a strong story, like the last of us could be a pathway, played on easy/story mode.

Id also second casual games as a pathway to more involved games. Overcooked is white hectic and introduced a few gaming mechanics from others. It's essentially crafting against a timer. To progress, she'll need to get better at controls, but the learning curve is gradual enough that she'll.have fun.

Rayman (legends?), I play coop with my kid. He dies often ,but it's not an issue as you only lose progress when you both die.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 9 months ago

Minecraft, stardew, factorio or satisfactory are good ideas. Fortnite's lego mode. Dragonquest Builders 2.

For stuck inside though and I've been there nothing beats those big open world games. Maybe Cyberpunk or BG3 or Yazuka or Fallout or Elder Scrolls are my personal faves but anything where you get to be the boss of the world like those are so fun when you can't roam or socialize much.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 9 months ago

When covid had everyone working from home and avoiding social contact, I started my gaming journey with Firewatch and The Long Dark, and Factorio. All are excellent. Alien Isolation and The Forest came later.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 9 months ago

I'm in a similar situation with my partner; she does game, but only shitty repetitive predatory mobile puzzle games. I got her Stardew to try and she absolutely hated it. I have, however, had some limited success with puzzle RPGs like Ticket to Earth.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

LocoRoco

It's the only game I've got my wife to play that she enjoyed. It's cute with simple controls. But there's enough there to keep her entertained for awhile.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 9 months ago

Turned based on pausable stuff can reduce stress by allowing for thoughtfulness, and even single player games can be done together through strategizing, while also not requiring the 2nd person if they aren't available. To that end, I'm going to recommend Slay the Spire, Dicey Dungeons or Broken Age. Then probably some kind of tactical game, Darkest Dungeon, Loop Hero or Shadowrun. After that, maybe some kind of management game, Cities: Skylines, SimCity, Stardew Valley, Humankind or Against the Storm. If you want to go deeper, Crusader Kings, Dyson Sphere Program or Wartales.

Real-time games that require using multiple sticks/buttons/aiming+moving at once are inherently more difficult to start without the muscle memory, so I'd look to build that up with games that have simpler controls starting with Vampire Survivors or Brotato. Then I'd probably do some kind of non-shooter first or third person game, thinking of Escape Academy, Firewatch or Superliminal, Amnesia (maybe). Then a combat first/third person game Assassin's Creed, Battlefield (Campaign), Mass Effect. Then maybe something that's got combat plus extra stuff, Atomic Heart, Deep Rock Galactic, Dead Space (maybe), Doom, Prey, Wo Long, Remnant. After that is really PvP stuff.

If you just want more readably accessible stuff, A Short Hike, Disneyland Adventures, Peggle, Plants vs Zombies, Bejeweled, The Walking Dead from Telltale (maybe).

I also pulled every game on this list off of Xbox Game Pass, so that might be a good way to try a bunch of different games for cheaper.

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