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I can fall asleep almost anywhere. I routinely fall asleep in the break room at work. Once, I was helping a friend fix his car, and I fell asleep on his garage floor when he went inside to get water.

But in a hot metal tube tearing through the sky, with my neck all kinked? Get out of here, man.

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[–] [email protected] 52 points 1 year ago (3 children)

neck pillow, eye mask, noise-cancelling headphones, and not comfortably

[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 year ago

Add some alcohol to that list and you've got my regular routine

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago

I use ear plugs then put on nose cancelling headphones.

Complete silence. I didn't hear the crying baby that was screaming for the 10 hour flight until the last hour lol.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

Same here, except I use ear plugs as well as headphones

[–] [email protected] 36 points 1 year ago (7 children)

I am gonna be honest with you here. Some of us born with a gift, given directly from god. They can sleep, without thinking embarrassing memories, without using any medicine, without finding comfort itself. But you and I... and many others... we are not welcomed to this dream world of easy sleepers. We are not gifted.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago

While many times it is a gift it is a curse if we suppose to be with someone. We go on a road trip? You barely close the door I am asleep. We ride buss I am asleep as soon as I sit down. Air plane I wake up 8 hours later. Hang out in bed I am gone.

I have to fight to stay awake but that is in vain. I will lose the fight five minutes later.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I usually have trouble falling asleep and can't just take a nap in the afternoon - never could.

But on a plane I'll be asleep minutes after the engines started and I'll happily sleep for hours through an entire flight. Something about the engine noise and movement of the cabin is very soothing to me. Same for trains, busses, cars.

And yet I'll regularly lie in my bed awake desperately trying to fall asleep..

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

Sounds like you might benefit from some white noise sleeping at home. Can play it through your phone or even an old radio set to some quiet static.

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 year ago (1 children)
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[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Pure exhaustion from all the "hurry up and wait" of airport bullshit.

By the time I've gotten out of bed, gotten ready, travelled to the airport, dragged all my shit through the airport, unpacked and repacked half of it through security, boarded the plane ... my body just kinda gives up on being awake.

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Like a baby. Just like a baby.

I've actually slept through a complete landing, disembarkation of half the plane, then taking off. Woke up completely unaware we did our stopoff already.

I may have been recovering from a hangover, but whatevs.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

Like a baby. Just like a baby.

Waking up crying every 2 hours? I guarantee that whoever came up with that saying to mean sleeping well never had kids.

I struggled to sleep on planes even before I had an energetic little kid to keep under control. I don't like sleeping while sitting up so I only ever manage to sleep lightly for a couple of hours at most.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago (1 children)

If it's hot in the plane, that might be blocking you from sleeping. Personally I'm always cold in planes and fall asleep relatively easily both on planes and elsewhere.

It also helps to be jet-lagged. Knocks you out right quick :P Only applies to return trips though.

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Noise cancelling headphones and the antihistamine tablets that say β€œwill cause drowsiness do not operate machinery or drive” washed down with a pint of beer. Sleep for 6 hours no problems.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago (2 children)

No idea but as SOON as we start to taxi I am out like a light...

I also fall asleep at the dentist so maybe it's just me?

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

I'm also a dentist sleeper and fall asleep on planes as soon as the engines get going. We out here.

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago (5 children)

on my first trip to SE Asia I stsyed up overnight and planned to sleep the whole time on the plane. This was advice I was given to help combat jet lag for 12 hour difference of time. Turns out...I can't sleep on planes. I arrived delirious and. borderline hallucinating. I slept like 18 hours once at the hotel. I now power through the whole flight with caffeine and videogames after taking a nap at home as close to flight time as possible.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

When traveling between far time zones, I do my best to arrive at my destination at night, so I can immediately go to sleep. I can't really sleep on planes, so it's easier to force myself to stay awake for 24-30 hours and just sleep when I get there.

I traveled to India in 2018, which was a 12.5 hour time zone difference from where I lived at the time. I had my flight all scheduled to arrive back at home at night like I like. But my flight got cancelled due to a tropical storm. I ended up having the airline find me another flight that didn't have the layover where the tropical storm was, so I actually got home sooner... But now in the morning. I couldn't sleep on the plane no matter how hard I tried. So I arrived back at home at 10 AM, which felt like night time to my body. And this was after essentially going a whole day without sleep already. As soon as I got home I passed out and slept all day. Worst thing I could have done. I went pretty much a whole week of sleeping all day and laying in bed all night with my eyes wide open. It wasn't until day 7 back home that I started feeling somewhat normal again.

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago

Only time I could ever sleep on a plane was after a business trip were I worked 18 hours days for almost 2 weeks. I was so tired I fell asleep right after boarding and buckling in. Not even takeoff and landing woke me up. Flight attendant shook me awake. LOL

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Flip down the tray table and lay your arms and head on it. That's the only way I can do it

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Hot? I'm usually cold on airplanes. That would definitely make a difference for me.

Neck pillow for the neck kinks. I don't like the horseshoe shaped ones though, I like the trtl brand style. Expensive, but it became worth it when I took a job requiring a couple flights per month minimum.

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago

Headphones in, zone out, drift off, wake up with a crooked neck.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago (2 children)

At some point, the seats stopped leaning far back enough so that gravity kept my head in decline. That way I could sleep. Now that they don't lean back far enough, my head keeps dropping forward, so I constantly am kept in a state or awake.

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Can you fall asleep in a car? You know those metal cages tearing down roads where more people get killed than in those metal tunbes tearing through the sky...

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago

White noise. The white noise knocks me out almost immediately.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Tell you GP that you have anxiety when you fly. They’ll prescribe a benzo.

Enjoy your snooze.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

Alcohol makes me need to pee often so that can backfire. Makes you dehydrated too. πŸ˜…

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

Diphenhydramine, melatonin, neck pillow, and EYE MASK. Critical to block out light. Bonus for noise cancwlli headphones playing noise.

[–] altima_neo 5 points 1 year ago

I couldnt sleep for shit when I took an overnight flight a long time ago. The air pressure messing with my ears made it too uncomfortable to do so.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

I used to fly a lot. I'm at the point where I board the plane, sit, close my eyes, and wake up when we start pulling into the gate at our destination.

I don't use a neck pillow or anything. Usually just grab a water bottle before boarding, because my mouth gets crazy dry.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

I used to not be able to sleep on airliners, but then I got a job that required I fly on one once a week. By far the best way to make time pass fast.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

The clouds are pretty. But speaking from experience, connecting flights/long flights will just let you drop in and out due to exhaustion. You will randomly wake up because of the weird positioning of your neck like 5 times. Heaphones help a lot to sleep. But I conclude, quality sleep can be found on airport floors(not joking).

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

Sensory reduction (earplugs, facemask) and some benadryl.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

How do people sleep on planes?

Neck pillow, earplugs, eyemask

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

Noise cancelling headphones and listen to something pleasant.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

There is a good trick: Business class. As I only fly business class long haul as I only fly for the job.

And luckily I can force my clients to pay for it.

Otherwise, as a rather long and large person, I am fucked.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

Personally, drugs

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I'm 6'4" (193cm). I don't.

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

Idk its pretty easy I'm usually tired and bored as shit

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

First you find a comfortable position. Sometimes a pillow helps. Then close your eyes.

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

I honestly have never had a problem sleeping on planes. If I'm tired before I get to the airport, I can often sleep through takeoff. On short flights I've only woken up after the plane lands.

For long haul flights I typically look to see what the local time of my destination will be when I arrive. If it's at night, I stay awake for the whole flight so I can crash as soon as I get where I'm going. If morning, I'll sleep the whole way so I can start the day fresh-ish. It really cuts down on jetlag.

For context, I got a remote job in 2016 and went full digital nomad basically until covid hit. I was living out of a single suitcase and flying once a month on average. I genuinely love flying. Pretty over the whole fascination with travel though.. In some ways it kinda ruins you. Now I'll only go somewhere if there are things I know I can only buy in the destination or if I'm going to visit friends or family. I have zero interest left for any tourist destinations, historical sites, museums, etc..

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Google credit card churning. Work your way through amex and other point systems. Get free / cheap business class tickets with lay flat seats.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

I started wearing ear plugs and an eye mask every day. Eventually I got so used to it to the point that 1) it feels comfortable and 2) my body associates those things with sleep.

When on a plane I just put the ear plugs and eye mask on, and my brain just knows it's sleep time.

Also, not all neck pillows are created equal. I found the biggest factor is the pillow having straps to secure it to the head rest. It will do the work of holding your head and you won't drift sideways as you fall asleep.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

Like a baby. The older I've gotten I've gained the ability to fall asleep virtually anywhere. My wife is super jealous that I'm able to be asleep for an entire 5-7 hour flight.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

I like what comedian Ismo said, there are two types of people: people who can sleep anywhere and people who can't sleep anywhere. I'm from the first. You seem to be in the middle. I can fall asleep standing up.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

With my face pasted against the window. After a while, all those tiny clouds look like a field of sheep πŸ’€

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