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Wher(ul)e is this from? (lemmy.blahaj.zone)

submitted 7 months ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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I saved it from a cropped image of an old zine and forgot to make note of where I got it 😭 Reverse image search isn’t helping me

Queer shitposters you’re my only hope!

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[–] [email protected] 38 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (3 children)

When I was around 8, my dad made the comment that it would have been easier for a trans lesbian to find partners if she’d never transitioned. I’m not an egg at 32 for exactly that reason or anything….

Sorry, !196 is for trauma dumping, right?

[–] [email protected] 37 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Hard disagree with your dad there, it would be extraordinarily difficult for a cis man to get in a lesbian relationship.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 7 months ago

❤️

[–] [email protected] 18 points 7 months ago (1 children)

I’m gay and trans too, I feel you on having family members make shitty comments and being afraid of being unsupported and unloved. It sucks and hurts to hear shit like that. 💔

[–] [email protected] 4 points 7 months ago

❤️ you’re doing a lovely job as a guide, if that helps. I’m very lucky to be married to a bisexual man who’s happy whether I transition or not and my family would probably be largely accepting. My dad would definitely make shitty “jokes” for a while, but he’d also be really excited to have a son, I think. Which is its own kind of shitty, but he’s never made it a big deal.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 7 months ago

When I was around 8, my dad made the comment that it would have been easier for a trans lesbian to find partners if they’d never transitioned.

Profferers of that view reveal they see women as fungible, else they'd comprehend lesbians want to date lesbians.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (1 children)

Here's a wiki which may help your search.

Here is a further resource.

Here's another you can search through as well.

Here's an archive which probably won't help your search, but while I'm linking things you should totally check out regardless

[–] [email protected] 6 points 7 months ago

Thanks for the links! I’ve been looking through QZAP on my own, but a few of the candidates I was wanting to look at aren’t loading for me (not sure if it’s because I’m on mobile or if it’s an issue with the archive). I’ll check the other sites as well 👍

[–] [email protected] 8 points 7 months ago

For the uninitiated: It's more the other way around. Trans folks are like 20% straight, almost the opposite of the cis population which is honestly not that mindboggling if you consider that that sexual orientation and gender identification are different things, not just conceptually but biologically. Flipping one switch doesn't flip the other.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Here's another source if you get through all of QZAP with no results (or just want another batch to look through).

[–] [email protected] 3 points 7 months ago (1 children)

That was supposed to be a reply to this post but kbin is being a little funky fresh at present.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 7 months ago (1 children)

when isn't kbin being funky

[–] [email protected] 1 points 7 months ago

when isn't kbin being funky

As I said, though, this funk is fresh.

Still the best way to interact with activitypub.