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The original was posted on /r/aitah by /u/Internetmadeus on 2023-08-12 01:58:32.
I 27f and my boyfriend 27m were talking about our relationship and why we picked each other. We have been together for a little over a year and then he brought up marriage and how he isn’t sure if he wants to marry me. I said well yeah we have only been together for a year and lived with each other for a month now, that would be kinda fast. He corrected himself by saying “I know I love you but I don’t see myself marrying you.”, he could tell by my face that hurt me. He apologized and said that he thinks we have to mesh more to make sure he is certain that I am the one. As of right now we have a 45% success rate, that within a year or two we will probably break up. Those were his exact words. I stopped speaking and he kept saying he was sorry he didn’t mean to hurt my feelings. He kept saying he loves me and he isn’t going anywhere because he loves me.
I know I am his first ever relationship and I do not expect to move fast by any means. But I asked him why is he with me if he doesn’t see a future with me and all he can say is because he loves and cares about me.
I told him I would not accept his apology and that I would be reconsidering this “relationship”, he was upset that I couldn’t at least accept his apologies for how honest he was.