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cross-posted from: https://lemmy.zip/post/17996475

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[–] [email protected] 21 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 28 points 1 month ago (1 children)

They said argue with thousands of people, clearly not referring to Lemmy niche communities.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Uhh, do you read here?! 😂

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Do you? "Thousands" is the word in question here

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 month ago

Argue with dozens of people! Dozens!

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 month ago

You are correct. Just us tens! 😂

[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 month ago (1 children)

To get serious for a second though: this is real and legit. You can find real happiness in the community that comes with a niche fandom.

It's covered in this podcast if you're interested: The Happiness Lab with Dr Laurie Santos - Nerd Out! The Happiness of being a Fan.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago

Literally why I'm here

[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 month ago

I'm in this photo and I don't like it.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Don't join niche communities on lemmy tho, or you'll end up arguing with yourself

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

Better than playing with yourself

It's no longer fun for me

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago

Damn sometimes content creation is the way to go. Something like VAM. You don't need VR headset. A bit of learning curve but making your own custom scenes in POV view may help of you got a decent PC.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago

Like a community about arch?

I guess it's not really niche at this point.

Btw, I don't run arch.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 month ago (1 children)

What happens when the niche communities aren't even enjoyable any more?

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Congratulations you're experiencing burnout and/or depression!

You can look forward to such exciting prospects as society telling you to just "feel better" and gaslighting yourself into thinking you're just lazy!

But wait there's more! If you act right now you can also experience self loathing for not being you're best self for your loved ones!

In all seriousness help is available. Take time to reconnect with yourself and seek out resources. Lean on your friends when you need to. Healing is a process and it doesn't happen all at once.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 month ago

I'm already in a number of communities about beige nineties computers, thank you very much.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago

I would say "thousands" is not really "niche" but yeah, I love small communities. It's how I started on the internet, and it's finally where I'm back at now

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago

I need to send this to a colleague right now.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 month ago

You leave my unhealthy obsessions out of this!

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I wish the edc community on Lemmy was active

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago (2 children)

If I may ask as an edc lurker, I love the idea of edc, but how do you carry so many useful gadgets? If I put stuff in my phone pocket then it scratches up my phone. If I put stuff in my key/wallet pocket then it unlocks my car randomly. I would carry my lathe in my pocket if it was feasible.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Use a fanny pack. It's ok to wear them again and will put you ahead of the "cool" curve

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Do I need to wear some sort of special technical fabric fanny pack? I don’t want to inhibit the progress of the pioneers.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago

Nope! It's a whole new fanny pack world for you to re-create

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 month ago

I generally don't carry that much on me. Phone in left pocket, Leatherman, keys, and pen in right pocket. Wallet and notebook in back pockets. Any more than that goes in my work backpack.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago

Looking at you, the bird's papaya

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 month ago

A lot of people took this at face value. Even myself at times.