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People who haven't really resumed socializing at levels they used to, people who lost the capacity to regulate during interpersonal interactions, people who lost trust in others... I encounter lots of partial returners out there

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 21 hours ago

Lockdown was a blast! I was paid to do what I always wanted; stay home and do whatever I felt like and not worry about other people.

Now that it's over, I haven't been able to keep a steady job. I've lost all the support I built up for myself in social situations.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 20 hours ago (2 children)
[–] [email protected] 4 points 17 hours ago (2 children)

Maybe if we smushed the two together and made up a word? Like hikicovidomori

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 17 hours ago

We do. It's called being Smart.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 14 hours ago* (last edited 14 hours ago) (1 children)

Hermits

I feel like the weird one out because lockdown was absolute hell for me. I need my community and my people. I go crazy being stuck inside a small apartment with nothing to do. I'm not fully an extrovert, I do need my alone time, but I also need to be with people I love.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 12 hours ago

Yeah, I can tell that I get a little weird if I'm alone too long. And the time it takes is shorter since covid. I'm assuming from too much time alone during the peak period

[–] [email protected] 9 points 20 hours ago

Yeah lockdown was living my best life. At least I managed to get a fully remote job with a small company several states away.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 22 hours ago

Oh hey it's me

[–] [email protected] 12 points 22 hours ago

In my particular case, it is called "working parent"

[–] [email protected] 5 points 20 hours ago

Yeah. That's me. Or anyone I know, really. Sure cities are back to pre-pandemic chaos, but those are other people.

I choose to work from the office on most days. I use public transit. I go to the gym. I'm not locked in, but ...

  • after-work drinks
  • meetups
  • catch up with a friend at the pub
  • date night
  • clubs
  • partys

That's a distant past. And i don't miss it, really.

Ok, I do miss socializing, the good parts: Crack some jokes, have some small-talk, feel part oof a group of friends.

But i don't miss it enough to endure that bad parts: Forcing oneselves into conversations with strangers, "networking", drinking a beer alone in a corner of some event, going out to bar where over your overpriced drink you'll accept that you'd rather be in your living room. Bars and night clubs are a weird concept (unless you are in your twenties and really enjoy the scene): You realistically only talk the person you came with, but they can't hear what your are saying since it's loud and crowded. There may be music, but unless you came to dance, you probably have a Spotify play list you'll enjoy more. In better quality.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 20 hours ago (1 children)
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[–] [email protected] 6 points 21 hours ago

I fucking loved it. 😁

[–] [email protected] 4 points 21 hours ago

Me. I'm people.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 22 hours ago (2 children)

Where do you encounter these people that haven't returned from isolation?

[–] [email protected] 16 points 22 hours ago

You don't. That's the point.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 22 hours ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 3 points 21 hours ago

Not really isolating is on zoom. Just preferring to be where they cannot smell you. I presume.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 22 hours ago* (last edited 22 hours ago)

How about: isolastionists?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 20 hours ago

Extraintroverts?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 20 hours ago* (last edited 20 hours ago)

Overintroverts?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 20 hours ago

Petroverts?

[–] [email protected] -1 points 21 hours ago

Pandainfuls

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