Just because it looks like people moved on easily doesn't mean they actually moved on easily.
this post was submitted on 27 Nov 2024
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I thought I had one but I read everyone else's first and after each one thought, yeah that would be good. Thank you for making me fully grasp just how inadequate I am. Just sign me up for any of these.
I wish I could just live in the present without having to completely fake a personality to hide the fact I don't have one.
To light things on fire with my mind.
You know someone who can light a fire with their mind?
Maybe. On a completely unrelated note, can you let me know the next time you'll be in public, preferably not standing within several feet of anyone else and anything flammable?
People who are very good at instruments. I wish I just knew guitar to be able to shred on demand, but I just could not put in the time and effort to get there myself.
Not being anxious about almost everything.
Not great at some of the emotional assuagences. Like, it's not enough to be right, you also have to make them feel good. Hell, you don't even have to be right.
Sometimes I feel it's like "hey don't eat that it'll make you sick" -> "fuck you don't tell me what to do" -> they get sick and learn nothing.
Like, we're all emotional. Me, you, everyone. But I feel like some people listen to almost entirely the emotional channel, and I don't really know how to tap into that very effectively.