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Just making sure I'm in the right place. I cannot see any developed communities here so I've started wondering, what's the real place everyone from Reddit has moved to? I've heard something about Discuit, but never tried it.

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[–] [email protected] 184 points 11 months ago (5 children)

Lots are here. I joined a while ago on a different server and the content was slow. But by now it's like always fresh content.

I can tell you the traffic rose up.

[–] [email protected] 56 points 11 months ago (1 children)

A few months ago, there were quite some people urging everyone to actively post and comment, to make the communities more lively and engaging.

[–] [email protected] 57 points 11 months ago (3 children)

I always remind myself to do this… Interesting post but no comments? Just add the first comment and a conversation will start - for me at least, there was always somebody commenting.

[–] [email protected] 26 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Yup. We have to be the content we want to see.

[–] [email protected] 17 points 11 months ago (3 children)

Does that also apply to porn consumers?

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 11 months ago (1 children)

I really try to make an effort to contribute. I sometimes still find it a bit uncomfortable - i remember the harsh ways people got called out/downvoted/got incredibly unkind replies on reddit-, but i try to do it anyway, if i feel i have something to contribute/something kind to say/have a question

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[–] [email protected] 48 points 11 months ago (7 children)

I am no longer a Reddit refugee, I am a Lemmy citizen!

[–] [email protected] 18 points 11 months ago

Feel you. This is my home now.

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[–] [email protected] 117 points 11 months ago

This is probably where most of them ended up, a few communities here are the official replacements too.

The problem is that Reddit is MASSIVE compared to any of the alternatives. More people are moving over slowly, it just takes time. As for why you aren't seeing much, maybe your feed is set to 'local'?

You can also subscribe to communities you like. Try looking for topics here: https://lemmyverse.net/communities

[–] [email protected] 91 points 11 months ago (12 children)

Just browsing /c/everything top-6 hrs and then getting into arguments in the comments.

It's like I never left.

[–] [email protected] 54 points 11 months ago (3 children)

If you can't get into pointless arguments with people who think the 1 mile radius around their house is representative of the entire world, what would be the point in even having a reddit replacement?

[–] [email protected] 38 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (1 children)

This offends me, and people in my local area.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 11 months ago (1 children)
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[–] [email protected] 14 points 11 months ago (1 children)

How dare you, browsing by everything top 12 hours is clearly superior

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[–] [email protected] 51 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Well I don't really consider myself a refugee so much anymore is the thing, it just feels like home here now

[–] [email protected] 19 points 11 months ago (4 children)

Same here. lemmy reminds me of how reddit was 10 years ago. Feels like home... God I'm old.

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[–] [email protected] 46 points 11 months ago (7 children)

Another ex redditor here. The issue seems to be that a lot of people created communities but never bothered to post something. Even my little ubuntu server community has nearly 90 subscribers by now.

We should work on more visible β€žyouβ€˜re here, what to do nextβ€œ. Something like β€žgo to communities tab, all, subscribe to each one you likeβ€œ, missing any? Make them yourselves, but dont forget to post on them since very few people will subscribe to an empty community. 10-20 posts over a month should be a good start. Generally avoid bots since they dont boost interaction at all (my personal impression).

Or a reminder for people who have made communities but no posts. That would stress them a bit I suppose but I thought Iβ€˜d bring the idea to the table.

Anyway, have a good one. :)

[–] [email protected] 20 points 11 months ago (1 children)

I think a lot of people don't realize just how much content on Reddit was being posted by bots. Also, the culture here is a lot more accepting of posting and commenting days or weeks apart, more like an old-school forum. Whereas on Reddit I would have thought someone was weird if they were commenting on a post I made a week ago, here it's not that weird. It means discussions can go on a bit longer.

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[–] [email protected] 45 points 11 months ago (2 children)

Lurking, just like I did on reddit. Lemmy is amazing and scratches most of the same itch reddit did for me, but I just read, vote, and move on.

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[–] [email protected] 37 points 11 months ago (2 children)

Lemmy is getting a lot of content these days. So I'm happy with it.

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[–] [email protected] 36 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Most of us are here! If you're just joining us, Welcome to the Party!

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[–] [email protected] 35 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (2 children)

I'm here!! And there are 'developed communities'... Lots of them. Keep looking and you'll get how things work here.

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[–] [email protected] 35 points 11 months ago (4 children)

Present. Using this as I did reddit. It’s like browsing a lot of the smaller subreddits I enjoyed, but all the time.

Downsides are less content, and definite growing pains. I think there are some aspects of the platform severely limiting its growth at this time, and I’m not sure how it’s going to tackle them yet. But I’m along for the ride.

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[–] [email protected] 34 points 11 months ago (9 children)

Lemmy is kinda nice but still kinda quiet, also as a 30 something I feel that the crowd here is quite young and immature which isn't that great

[–] [email protected] 22 points 11 months ago (2 children)

Really? This surprises me. Reddit was a circlejerk of who had the best joke to race to the top of the comments section, not seeing that here.

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[–] [email protected] 25 points 11 months ago (2 children)

I'd rather not browse Reddit if it means having to use the official dumpster-fire of an app... since that's the only option now, I just deleted my account.

Lemmy definitely scratches the itches I used to rely on Reddit for - I've had zero urge to relapse.

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[–] [email protected] 24 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (3 children)

I'm here, but barely. I've not went back to Reddit (got IP banned during the migration), but Lemmy is too focused on certain topics for me to enjoy it.

Mainly FOSS and Linux community FLOCKED to Lemmy. You really can't say anything about anything without people coming out of the woods screaming about how stupid you are, how FOSS is better, and Linux is superior.

Remember the backlash over Sync for Lemmy? Massive hate from the Lemmy community because it wasn't FOSS. Wouldn't be shocked if the Boost for Lemmy dev stopped developing his app after seeing that. I feel like Lemmy is shooting itself in the foot and pushing people away.

EDIT: case in point. https://lemmy.ca/comment/3131292

[–] [email protected] 15 points 11 months ago (1 children)

I second this. Lemmy is fully of "techy people" that think the only way to be "techy" is the way they define it without realizing if you aren't universally adept or open then you are curating your content to a point you are part of the "sheep" you claim not to be a part of.

If you like anything you pay for then you are wrong. If you still use Windows you are wrong. You need to abandon everything Google and Apple but still buy a Google product and run a degooglefied version of the product. So give the company you hate your money but not your data. Makes perfect sense.

It's either Linux or the highway but not everyone wants to use a terminal to use Mullvad or Tor every time you want to access the web to shop for a pair of shoes. Despite the fact you can write a script that still requires you to use a terminal to run Tor or what ever.

Not everyone wants Torrent speeds to pirate that piece of Microsoft software or movie. Some of us want to be, "normies" and just buy and use things that work without all the work that is unnecessary in our every day lives. We want to go to work, make money, spend time around people and things we love.

Yes, we get it we are the reason corporations and capitalism exist but I don't see your FOSS downloads and open source software slowing that way down. We don't need online tech heros who can prove you can free yourself. We need activists and people like that running got local politics and leadership helping actually put a stop to being taken advantage of.

Posting something about Unity enraging game companies is something anyone can do. But shoving a community off that you should be respectfully educating rather than shunning just because someone didn't want to pirate a movie and instead watch it on a Windows machine through Linux isn't or doesn't change anything.

I am no longer on Reddit but Lemmy is fully of tech people who also often have 0 fucking clue what they are talking about. Which is quite ironic.

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[–] [email protected] 24 points 11 months ago (1 children)

I've just been here since the API change. I've been more or less happy with it. Some things are dissapointing, like there being just as much of a hive-mind mentality as reddit. But I guess that's probably just inherent to online vote-based communities.

I also wish there were an easier way to find new communities - and good ones. I don't want to browse shitty memes. I want stuff where people are participating in good faith genuine discussion about meaningful topics.

I've found some of that here so far.

At the end of the day though, this is open source and decentralized. It's everything a social media should be. To me, anything less than that is a waste of time. There is zero reason to spend your personal time creating content for a company to profit off of.

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[–] [email protected] 23 points 11 months ago

Reddit is old enough to vote and has several orders of magnitude more users. You can't create that much content organically overnight. As more content gets added it will attract more people who are interested in that content. In turn those users will contribute even more, even if it's just in the form of engagement and upvoting posts they like.

Lemmy is already experiencing some growing pains because the decentralized, user hosted nature of the platform will never be able to react quickly across all instances. We deal with it because we don't want to be controlled by one overarching entity and this is the ONLY alternative. Are there issues? Yes. Are there fewer issues than other social media sites? I don't know, but the problems are at least different and potentially more fixable in the long run.

[–] [email protected] 21 points 11 months ago (1 children)

https://sub.rehab is a good place to look for former Reddit communities that made the move.

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[–] [email protected] 20 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

I'm here. I left reddit for good, I don't even lurk it anymore.

[–] [email protected] 20 points 11 months ago (9 children)

A lot of communities went to Discord for some reason. I don't get it, its not the same as reddit at all.

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[–] [email protected] 20 points 11 months ago

Not every community made the move. Tech related ones are definitely here, not so much for games or anything in humanities unless we're counting very small communities. But it's a start.

[–] [email protected] 19 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (13 children)

I would say 99.9% of people are still on Reddit. I mainly use Lemmy to get the bigger news stuff and the gaming community is pretty active here too. Also I use Lemmy on mobile only really since the Reddit app is still terrible.

If I want to read about one of my other interests I'll go to the specific subreddit on my desktop browser and use old Reddit but with no account since I deleted mine a few months ago. Sometimes I'll post or comment on one of those smaller communities here but I don't want to be someone who posts tons of things to a community. Too much work for me.

Hopefully the user base and engagement will grow over the next few years. Welcome to being an early adopter!

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 11 months ago (1 children)

I'm here still. It is much slower here than reddit, but there are some upsides to that. One is that I spend way less time on my phone, scrolling

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 11 months ago (23 children)

I am on Lemmy (here and a few other instances) but when I get into discussions in comments here I am starting to wonder if I should just quit the whole social media concept altogether. So far I have mostly stayed since I still need to get some news from somewhere but RSS might be a better option in the long run.

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 11 months ago (1 children)

I’m here! How did you not see me?

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[–] [email protected] 17 points 11 months ago

Spend a few minutes going through the all communities here, a number of active communities moved across, you just have to look for them.

[–] [email protected] 17 points 11 months ago

Discuit seems to offer nothing new but more promises of not falling down the same buisness practice pitfalls as reddit. I am sure they are well intentioned. But intentions are not enough.

I am on Lemmy for one simple reason. I am done trusting corporations to run projects for any extended poeriod of time without succumbing to corruption, greed, or missmanagement.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 11 months ago (1 children)

I'm assuming Discuit is a private company using proprietary software? If that's the case, may as well just crawl back to Reddit and gently place the boot back on your neck.

The ex-reddit users who choose to not let sociopath scumbags golden shower them can still be found here.

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 11 months ago

I'm here working at developing a community every day. It's the community for my hometown, a large city on the coast of California. I try to post some interesting original content at least every other day, including photos.

Sometimes I feel like it's a personal echo chamber, but there are lots of lurkers and upvotes, so I keep going. Reading lots of other Lemmy communities going forward. It's all good.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

You don't find this one to be developed? Well, they might not be establishments like on Reddit but there's definitely activity on many communities.

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