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[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 year ago (8 children)

All done!

Didn't end up doing echiums and cherry blossom :(

And many thanks to my very helpful neighbour

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago

They are gorgeous, well done πŸ’

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Amazing result. Your brother owes you big fucking time for this!

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago

they are so beautiful πŸ’—

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago

Nice work you!

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Finally got settlement date on the new house. 23rd. And then 2 days later I'm going to Melbourne. I knew it would happen that week, lol.

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I am all peopled out methinks.

4 years ago could easily have done it but now no go. 5 days in a row of lengthy small talk with so many people is just too much.

So today is just gonna be laying some dripper hose I'm absolutely happy with that.

Also the azelia made it through the night in the fridge. I was told categorically it wouldn't. They were wrong.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Isn't your bro's wedding... tomorrow? Overseas?! Or have I got it mixed up.

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Is it ok to physically assault people who walk in squadron formation of 5 people across through shopping centres? I feel like there should be a legal loophole here.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago

Imagine yourself as a bowling ball and them as the pins. Aim for the middle and walk with determination. Make no move to move out of the way and you should be able smash through them lol

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago

I believe the appropriate response is to join the group and keep walking, whilst playing "Eye of the Tiger" loudly on your phone.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago

One free swing of the clothesline is permitted.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Just rolled out of bed to find I have also left my split system on overnight at 18C 😱 RIP my energy bills.

Sore throat came back overnight. Not sure if it was the temperature or maybe the dust that keeps circulating around my apartment. When I get back from my short interstate trip I definitely will need to do a deep clean of the apt. Air purifier will be in by then too so maybe it'll help..

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago (10 children)

My homeburger

Homeburger has smokey bacon, burger patty, smokey cheese, fried egg, pineapple ring, tomato, lettuce, onion, tomato sauce, hot sauce and kewpie mayo on a brioche bun.

It was delicious therefore I give it 5/5 yum yums πŸ˜‹

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Standing in line at the Chemist, looking at the assorted fragrances for sale. It seems there are a lot more marketed at blokes than there used to be.

Thing is: I don't understand who wants to smell like an NRL/AFL/soccer/cricket player? The first thing I do after sport is shower and get rid of the smell.

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I just walked out to the garage and the man's got a sensor light set up and I nearly fucking shit me self when it turned on.

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (5 children)

Having a look at the cooker rally pages and communities to get an idea of how big the "No to the voice" rally today will be. I don't think it'll be big but it will still be very disruptive to trams along Bourke, Swanston, Flinders, Elizabeth. There are speeches planned under the clocks at Flinders St Station.

I wonder if they can stick to the main subject matter instead of pro Trump, anti wind farm, anti vaccine, anti 15 minute cities, anti UN and WEF, and more... They seem to be quite unhappy that there will be politicians that don't want them talking about the conspiracy stuff in the Sydney rally, too.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Had no idea what 15-minute cities are, and like I know why they're against it now, but like my GOD that's stupid. I just want to be able to get to places without having to uber (my docs are close-ish to work but not close to home).

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago (1 children)
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I need to do better with groceries. I get lazy and forget to cook and sometimes need to throw some away cuz moldy πŸ˜’

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago

The bag of two-year old Woolies seedlings that I found in my house have started to sprout! Soon will be time for potting

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

10pm is a terrible time to drunkenly decide to have Thai for dinner, FYI

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago (2 children)

There is no bad time to have Thai,. especially when drunk.

Enjoy and Maazel tov

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago (6 children)

How do people cope with getting over things?

I did something yesterday which was my fault and may have future repercussions if I can’t sort it out in a timely manner but I keep replaying the incident in my head and of course there’s going to be seeing the damage I caused too.

I don’t want it to haunt me constantly but this time the repercussions could come back to bite me as well and impact me though know how long that will take.

I hate that I can’t I don’t know, forgive my mistakes and move on with these things.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago

Mate shit happens. Nobody's perfect. I once backed into a bollard and I've even parked so close to my garage door that it was concave until someone pointed it out to me then I moved the car back. We have all done dumb things. All of us.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago

For me, it helps to pretend that the "me" that made the mistake is my friend. Would I say the things I say to myself, to my friend? No.

I wouldn't say to my friend "you're the worst", "I hate you", "why are you so bad at everything", etc, if they made a mistake or felt bad about something. So why would I treat myself like that?

It takes practice, patience, and self-love and self-kindness. Self-reflection and introspection are difficult, but constant reaffirming is needed to rewire the neuron paths that make us sad. Our brains enjoy a well-used path, and the more it uses those paths the harder it is to break. But you can rewire it, by recognising those thoughts and paths, and consciously saying "i am not bad, I am human and that is okay!"

I'm not always kind to myself, but I'm getting better. Try to learn from what happened, and always try to be kind to yourself. It is okay, it will get better, I am here supporting and rooting for you. πŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œ

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago (4 children)

I have walked 1010 steps today. AMA. (I was planning on breaking my last weeks step count of 86k today, currently at 76k but I got lazy today πŸ˜”)

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago

I think it might be a spring clean and day drink to some tunes afternoon. This depression den needs some attention if I want to even entertain trying to get my social shit together and meet someone.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Aircon install was finished today. I've now got 5 kw of RAW cooling power!

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago (4 children)

All these other biscuits are full of pea protein, lentils or beans, all of which give my cat stomach pain. Chickpeas are about tolerable but I can’t find that without the others.

It’s giving me the shits. I have a just opened bag and a full unopened bag of expensive food but because the factory made the pieces too hard it’s inedible.

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago (8 children)

Thank you everyone for your support today.

I’m sorry I didn’t respond to each one of you as I fell asleep listening to the radio and podcasts this afternoon.

They are all valid points and I’ll make an effort to take it all onboard.

I’m not great at reflecting on things as I’m so harsh on myself for mistakes made.

I guess the biggest thing on my mind is that I can’t rectify the problem. I’ll try in the coming months if I can.

Anyway I have to forgive myself first and that will be hard to come to terms with in the current situation as it may make my life harder in the future.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (6 children)

Life is like a cricket match. Sometimes you take the catches. Sometimes you get stung with the ball and it hurts but you shake yourself off and you keep playing.

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago

didn’t know how much I rely on the little stick-on round mirrors for parking until one of them fell off.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago (4 children)

I just got home from dancing to fantastic power ballads.

A glass of prosecco and Janelle Monae tunes at home to kick on

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago

Chilly start to the day. 3.3 out there, feels like 1.7. Mr Woof doesn't care, he has a thick fur coat and nothing seems to phase him, but I needed to add multiple layers this morning. πŸ₯Ά

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (3 children)

Anyone got a good camping equipment/supplies list...? Taking our camper out on its maiden trip tomorrow

Edit - we're going to powered sites. Is there any reason I can't take the air fryer.....?

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago

Binged my way through s1 of Good Omens. That was delightful! I sadly can't see Jon Hamm as anyone other than Don Draper though...

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Exercises completed. Took Miniest to the farmers market and soaked in the sunny vibe. Got a bit of laundry done and then we lit the brazier, threw the rack over it and BBQd some sausages. Watched the Elder play RDR2, a game I enjoy watching him play because the landscape is beautiful and it's like watching a movie (I really get into it, much to my sons amusement).

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago

What a boodyful day. It never gets old the way Ms GPS pronounces Geelong Road as G-long road.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

To prevent nippocalype, I have replenished the cow milk stock which I depleted last night.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)
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[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago (2 children)

The earwigs have already gotten to the mint :/

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago

Mint is resilient. It will be fine.

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago

Saganaki with lemon juice and jam.

Is. A. Vibe. 🀀

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