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There were also 2 more below that.

And this must be a bot, endless posts by this user, every time the same content on multiple communities.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Daily Reminder, Discussion is okay. Name caling, vitriol and toxic behaviour is against our community rules. Nothing is worth an argument. Discuss away but leave the aggression at the door.

It goes without saying, but any user included in the post should not be harassed. Those found to be following this person will be banned from the community.

[–] [email protected] 22 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Here's my idea:

It's a middle ground between completely hiding the duplicates, and letting them as is. Once you click that plus button, it shows the duplicates as full posts, otherwise it leaves them as just one-liners.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago

Can you put this suggestion on their Github issues tracker? It's brilliant.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

I like this one. It conveys all of the pertinent cross posting info in a succinct manner.

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago (3 children)

It's the same motherfucker just karma farming

[–] [email protected] 17 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Farming what? There is no karma on lemmy

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

There is karma on lemmy, available through api

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 year ago (1 children)

okay but literally no one cares about that

[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 year ago (3 children)

No one except the aforementioned motherfucker

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

And he is getting slammed, we should treat him like we do the reddit repost bots.

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I think bots are too agressive posting everywhere. example linkbot, it has posted over 20000 posts and its only one month old account.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago (1 children)

There is a cross post feature, and the resuting post appears to be aware it was cross posted - it would be nice if Lemmy would consolidate those to one post that appears in multiple communities, or at least show you only one of them.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Lemmy needs cross communities that exist across instances otherwise it's going to get more and more fragmented

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Why do people insist that there needs to be (for example) /c/politics on every instance? Really, there are only 3 or 4 with any substantial traffic, and there are good reasons to pick one over the others, and they are the same good reasons for them to be separate.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Why do people insist that there needs to be (for example) /c/politics on every instance?

This is a fundamental issue with the way that lemmy is organized that was identified early. Its a design consideration thats pretty much baked into the cake that each lemmy instance effectively tries to be an entire reddit.

Its a bit of an issue, because this will necessarily dilute the kind of network effect that is what allows social media to be as engaging as it can be. Interesting articles don't get as much momentum. The interaction is more diffuse. Conversations are more spread out and fragmented.

Its beyond the scope of the current design, and I really do commend the developers for what they've built (lemmy as is a great experience); however, a more 'instance' based approach may have made more sense based on how we've seen things scale. Instead of every lemmy instance trying to be 'all of reddit' each lemmy instance would focus on a set of niches (for example, a fashion focused instance would have c/fashion, c/mens_fashion_advice, c/streetware,... whatever); then they would federate to propage these niche across the fediverse.

The Star Trek lemmy instance is an example of this. Its a home for all things star trek. I also tried to start something like that focused around WallStreetBets, but afaik, WSB had almost no exodus.

More importantly, the critical mass to get enough users for the content to be interesting didn't happen. There were too many competing /c's across the lemmyverse. So articles get posted, but none get more than 1-3 upvotes because the userbase that would get it to say 5-15 upvotes simply isn't there.

I really do love lemmy for what it is, but this design consideration is absolutely what is preventing Lemmy from being a true Reddit killer. The structure of federation sets lemmy(s) up in a way that there is an inherent blocking factor to super-connectivity.

However, I can imagine a couple solutions to this that dont necessarily require a full burn down and rethinking of lemmy.

One would be to allow for the merging of communities. Users set up C's, but if there was some way to do a kind of merge (as like on github), where the two RSS feeds could be merged (as in github). Likewise, it would make sense if there were a way to 'split' or fork communties, as in, say you've got c/fashion, and some one wants to fork off and have it become c/mens_fashion. This would allow communities to consolidate around critical mass (there are enough posts, comments, etc to represent meaningful engagement), and then also to diffuse that issue latter when it makes sense to maybe split off political memes from say, political discussion.

A second solution would be to allow communities to be 'transferred' across the federation. This makes sense in that your 'local' community should be comprised of the things you care about the most (fashion, mens fashion, streetware, etc..). This feature would allow niche communities to consolidate into single instances, which will also serve to drive engagement (a user of mens fashion is far more likely to post into streetware and vice versus).

A third option would be to build a super structure to lemmy that allows for the consolidation of multiple lemmy RSS feeds into one. Effectively, user would be able to identify various lemmy communities into 'supper communities' that consolidate them under a single heading (a tool to grab up all the 'mens fashion advice /c's across the fediverse) and deliver it in a single RSS feed.

Of the three of these the third option makes the most sense to me. It requires the least rework of the underlying data structures, and seems like a bolt on solution. However, it also might be the least effective of the three. I've no intuition about what that would do the structure of the network or if it would aid in overcoming critical thresholds of engagement.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

Having instances focused on one specific thing is the best solution, but it requires a couple other problems to be solved first.

The biggest one is discovery. Lets take your example of a fashion instance, hypothetically we'll call it fashion.world. Lets assume I'm a user interested in fashion setting here on lemmy.world, and I want to subscribe to a fashion community. Currently the lowest resistance method is to hop over to the local community list and scroll through looking for any fashion related communities. If I'm a little more savvy maybe I hop over to the search option and take a crack at some plausible sounding community names starting with just fashion. That might work, but it relies on lemmy.world already being federated with fashion.world, which in turn relies on another user having already found and subscribed to one of their communities. On a very large instance like this one that's probably a decent chance of having occurred, but on small or obscure instances it's very unlikely. So we have a massive discoverability problem now. There needs to be some kind of centralized registry where you can type a term and see all the communities across all the instances that might be related to that term.

Another related problem is that instances, communities, and users, are closely bound to each other. I think it was a mistake to put everything together. It simplified things in the early days, it makes it possible to treat a lemmy instance as a mini-reddit, but it causes problems in the long run. Instead you should have a service for users to authenticate with and federate user messages and such, and an instance for communities to be hosted out of and federated. This would also simplify some aspects of moderation as user instances could setup a consistent set of rules they expect their users to follow. If you get caught not following those rules you get banned from the instance. Communities then could have their own rules they setup and via de-federation with different user registries you'd have a quick way of deciding the kinds of users you want in your community. Seeing a lot of hate speech coming out of the user registry run like a 4chan board? Sorry fellas, ban hammer time, that's why you can't have nice things. Not to mention breaking users and communities apart lets things scale in a more natural fashion, where the load the community server is under is directly proportional to the interest in those communities rather than if that instance happened to be the most well known one when someone went to register their account.

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago

I feel like the best way to handle the situation with similar/same communities on different instances is to allow communities to automatically federated with other communities. That way subscribing to one community will show you its posts and all the posts to its linked communities.

It would be especially helpful for these general purpose communities like Technology or News since I would imagine most communities are going to have one.

If that happens then we wouldn't need to hunt down and follow every single instance of the same community. Let the mods handle it on their end to save the rest of us the effort.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago

But did you know about the nearly 50% reduction in Threads users???

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

w o r l d n e w s

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

This also happened on reddit

[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 year ago (2 children)

It did, but it wasn't as bad as this. My hope is that as Lemmy matures, this will happen less.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

It got lost on the noise of reddit. There’s no way lemmy has more bots, let alone a higher ratio to users.

And it’s entirely up to your instance, the instance I am in has strict bot rules that other instances bots must follow.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

wtf do the bots have to do with this? the issue is that multiple communities are all talking about the same article in many different places when they should be all talking about it in 1.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (14 children)

Absolutely not, the benefit of each community having its own vibe is exactly that.

Think of it it like this, one community is for Germans and one is for the French. They can talk about the same thing, but they will Absolutely go about it differently, and that’s fine. Pick which one you want to help/join, or hit up both.

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

The only way it happens less is if lemmy actually does something to merge communities or treat cross posts as a single post.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

unless communities and users become agnostic to instances, this problem will never be solvable. also defederation makes this virtually impossible.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

It shouldn't be that difficult to give mods or administration the ability to name communities that "super federate" and appear as local to all instances. That or make Instances more agnostic.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

a simple flaw in this design is that users on lemmy.world and users on beehaw.org are not federated, so how do we resolve that issue for a community that is on .ml, .world, beehaw, and nsfw, beehaw would have to support content from world, who they are currently defederated with, or their users would just not see content from world users. the whole premise of defederation is ironically antithetical to the premise of federation. by making a larger group of distributed users, the system could work great. but the admins are taking their personal issues to each other causing fractures that make adoption for newer users and more laymen basically impossible. that whole "it doesn't matter what instance you use" is complete BS at this point since half of the top 5 instances are defederated frome at least 1 other.

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

If these are serial reporting, Threads is down by a factor of 8. Could be more. Antelope FWY 1/128 mile.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (7 children)

I think "World News" and "Technology" are not quite similar communities. It's up to the mods of each community to decide whether the content posted is appropriate to that community. One could argue, that an article about Threads is not exactly "World News" though. Also I think that the different variants of e.g. Technology will have a "flavor" of the instance that it's hosted on. You then get the option to subscribe only to the flavors you like, or if you subscribe to all, then there's bound to be some duplicates. Maybe some future feature could combine them - it would need to be clear which comment threads are from which instance though.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

Its not really surprising to see duplicate from what are basically all 'general-purpose' instances. Merging duplicate posts into one would be a great solution.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

It seems useful to have bots serial posting for a while, within some limits.

These forums have a chicken and egg problem - need posts to get commentors, need the commentors to incintivise posters. Also just need content in general to get any readers.

But I'm in general agreement that recently the feeds haven't been too smooth on Lemmy and that take a lot away from the browsing experience.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

This icon makes a cross-post, it shoud be used, because it combines them in the feed if both are in the same view (often in New), but it probably should be automated, at least if the link and the title are the same, so it also works if someone doesn't use the button to cross post.

Example:

This way you still are only one click away from each communities comments.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

Yeah, I don't have that option on jerboa and loading lemmy in a browser on mobile is a terrible experience.

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